1. Opening greeting – Dear Aunt Mary – the person you are thanking
2. Naming the specific item received or event attended
3. A special comment about the gift, event –  how you will

5. Closing & signature – Love, warm regards, hugs, whatever you want to precede your signature
   
   Here are a few examples of thank you notes for different social situations . . .
   
   THANKS for a GIFT
   
   Dear Aunt Mary and Uncle Bill,
        
   I want to thank you for the beautiful personalized stationery.  I love the color pink!  These notes will come in handy when writing my thank you notes for graduation gifts.
       It was great having you at my graduation party.  Family is so important to me. Thanks again for thinking of me.
                           Love,
                           Ashley
   
   THANKS for a Party or EventDear Mary and Bill,
   
           Dave and I had such a great time at your dinner party.  The meal was yummy and the conversation lively.  If you share your recipes, I would love to know how to prepare that wonderful potato casserole.
          Again, we want to thank you for including us in a lovely evening.  We look forward to seeing you soon.
   
                           Warm regards,
                               Susan
   Please note that this note is written and signed by Susan on her own personalized notes.  The first sentence includes her husband as part of the thank you.  A point of etiquette . . . the signature should match the personalization!  This is the format I use a lot when writing a thank you on behalf of my husband & myself.
   
   THANKS for a GIFT that is AWFUL
   We have all received these terrible gifts that we will NEVER use!!!  You still need to say thanks while trying to be non committal so you don’t receive more of the same thing.
   
   Dear Aunt Mary,
   
         Thank you for remembering my birthday.  The scarf and gloves that you knit for me is such a thoughtful gift.  I know a lot of time and love went into them.
         I love my new job and life in Chicago.  Hopefully you will come and visit in the near future.
                           Love,
                           Ashley   
   Ashley thanks her aunt for the gift but especially the thought not the item.  Hopefully she won’t get a matching knit hat for Christmas!!!
    
   I hope I have given you some food for thought about thank you notes.  Writing them isn’t really as bad as you think!  I always told my sons that if they wrote a nice thank you note they would most likely continue to get gifts from that person (especially grandparents, aunt & uncles, etc.)
   
   THE BOTTOM LINE  . . . no matter what form of thanks you chose, please make it timely . . . within 2 weeks (1 week is even better).  Brides get a break.  My rule of thumb is to get those thank-you notes out as soon as the gifts arrive.  You say, “not possible” . . . OK . . . 3 months after the wedding is still a good goal.  Some sources say you have a year, but it’s best to send out the thank-you before the gift giver forgets what they sent or that they even sent you a gift!
   
   More later . . . Ms. Carey
   
   

No email can duplicate the impact that a well-written letter or personalized stationery can generate in someone’s mailbox. There are three factors that make your handwritten card or letter stand out above electronic mail: (see Wed. for the third factor)

The Spam Factor

Can you really rely on the internet for guaranteed communications that will be read? There are several reasons that your email may not be seen, or seen but not read. The first reason is it may get caught in the wide net of junk filters. Some companies block emails from unknown domains altogether. Many legitimate emails disappear this way. But even if your email does arrive at its correct destination (which we know, most of them do), your recipient may not take the time to really read it. Overfull in-boxes plague most of today’s computer users. It is hard to get noticed in a sea of similar-looking messages. Conversely, the majority of people check their ‘real’ mailbox once a day and pay attention to items that are different than the usual household bills and sale advertisements.

The Touch Factor

This moment when your recipient is fingering through the mail stack is a crucial opportunity to stand out in the crowd. Paper can be seen and touched. The tactile sense is one that humans do not get to use that much in modern communications — where most information arrives via sight and sound. Conscious or not, the receiver is learning and processing information about each piece of mail as they sort via touch. Your letter can get noticed by sending an envelope in a unique texture, heavier weight or smooth coating or unusual shape or size. Adding a vibrant color can help the eye reinforce the message from the sensory touch to “Hey, read this!”

Writing can be a critical step in an individual’s recovery from physical illness, mental trauma or substance abuse. The first aspect of therapeutic writing is having the individual identify and articulate their own feelings: fear, anger, disappointment, anxiety, despair, confusion, and frustration are all common and valid feelings a person experiences. Writing about all these feelings can assist someone in healing and committing to the necessary treatment plan or steps on the road to recovery.

The second aspect of therapeutic writing is related to conflict resolution and strengthening past, current and future relationships. A commonly used technique in recovery from alcohol or substance abuse is to have the individual ask forgiveness or make amends for wrongs they have done in the past. Writing is a useful vehicle in tackling this challenge. Sometimes a person has been shut out because they have hurt someone badly. They may be able to communicate via a letter, or in some cases, the receiver does not accept the letter, but the individual has at least gone through the process of taking responsibility for their actions and asking for forgiveness on paper. The psychological benefits build from there as the person tackles living a better life in the future.

Creative Outlet (journaling / poetry)

A popular form of personal writing is journaling. Generally not meant for other people’s eyes, journals produce benefits that are almost 100% psychological. The act of journaling counteracts daily stress and is a useful tool to learn more about yourself and to clarify your life’s goals. Disorganized in your thinking? Not sure how you feel? Regular journal entries help you to work through everything that is going on in your life and those around you. As you put these thoughts to paper, you are working through these problems in your mind and subtly figuring out how to solve them.

Journaling also has a lighter side and can be used for the sake of creativity alone. Activities such as journal and poetry writing have been shown to improve mental function and stimulate creative thinking for people of all ages, children through senior adults. The process of writing can enable any individual to become a better communicator at home and in the workplace, for all of the reasons above and more. Creativity begets new ideas and new ways of doing things. It can be producing a piece of art for the pleasure of others. With writing, anything is possible.

Think of writing as nourishment for your brain. While writing cannot possibly solve all of your problems tomorrow, with some discipline and a regular schedule, gradually you will begin to see improvements in some areas of your life such as mood and mental health. Chances are your physical health will improve as well. As you make decisions, define priorities, strengthen relationships, and generate new ideas, the transformation you will achieve may surprise you.

Decision Making (pros and cons)

One of the first benefits to putting your thoughts on paper is discovering clarity. Seeing the words in writing makes them real and solvable. This technique is particularly useful when it comes to making a tough decision. How many times have you heard the advice to fold a piece of paper in half vertically and write all the pros of the decision on one side and all the cons on the other? We know this advice but rarely do people follow it. The act of writing helps you to weigh risks and benefits of decisions, and hopefully leads to making better ones.

Even if you do not have a life-changing decision to make, writing is a beneficial tool to simplify your life and stay organized. To-do lists are a prime example of this type of writing. The greatest benefit of all is the psychological boost you get when you cross an item off your list! Writing helps you to remember important appointments and events, benefiting you and your family in being where you need to be on time. Feeling overscheduled as a family? Try writing down everyone’s activities and then ranking them, giving each member at least two or three activities they get to keep; have each person rank their remaining priorities and get rid of the ones that are not necessary or less important.

The variety of statements you can make with your own personalized stationery goes on and on. Remember, your actions speak louder than words! Let your paper and envelopes do some talking as well. Make sure they are saying saying what you want them to say about you. Select a style that speaks to your own personal image.

• The Adventurer 
  There are many stationery styles for the globetrotting adventurer. Some papers incorporate classic geometric designs of traditional cultures such as a Moroccan tile motif or Swiss floral design. Other choices include tropical hibiscus patterns or safari animal prints in non-traditional colors such as fuchsia or hot lime green. A new trend in stationery with a more casual personality is cards with a stick figure or cartoon person that can be customized to your choice of hair and skin colors. Choose a design showing your character in action — taming a lion, climbing a mountain, or smoothly sailing on the French Riviera. 
• Bold and Fearless
  Bold is big theme for the new millennium generation. Paper choices range from very plain where you let a dark, bold color border speak for itself to ornate, large wallpaper-type patterns printed in rich dark navy, deep purple, espresso brown, hot pink, chartreuse green, and even a classic true red. These patterns tend to work best in a neutral- and one-color combination but you do not have to limit yourself to one color. Some personalized stationery sets come in a combination of one design repeated in a palette of four or five colors, or alternatively some designs are now using two or even three colors combined on the same card for a fearless look sure to make statement. (see Hand Bordered Stationery) 
• Classic Cool
  If you’re the type who speaks few words but each word is important, you may choose a classic design where the paper takes backstage to the words printed on it. Classic designs often feature subtle borders and initials embossed on thick, textured paper in cool tones such as pastel blue or soft ecru. Looking for classic but modern sophistication? Why not try a bright white paper stock with just your name printed in an ink of your choice — you cannot get any more classic than basic black, but if you want a bit more personalization olive green or pumpkin orange are some of the popular accent colors for today’s classic designs.
• Designer Diva
  Fashion encompasses more than just clothing and shoes. Think of your personalized stationery as an extension of your own wardrobe accessories. Channel your inner diva with a Hollywood-themed design, or select a pattern with stars and confetti. Another big trend in designer stationery is hand-drawn or painted hats, shoes or shopping bags expressing what you are all about. Alternatively, draw from the new trends in the real fashion and accessories world with throw-back preppy Delightful Dots Cards. 

Hand bordered correspondence cards in any hue are always appropriate.  They are a timeless option for both men and women.  American Stationery offers these classic cards in an array of stunning colors, such as: black, wine, sage, navy, espresso, aqua, hot pink, tangerine, lemon, hunter green, silver and many more.

Looking for stationery with a more contemporary flair?  Here are a few of our favorites:

The Avenue Cards set comes with a mint green and chocolate border and pink and chocolate border.  These embossed bevel edge cards feature a stylish border and paired with matching double lined envelopes.

The Chocolate and Aqua Double Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards are smoothly coordinated cards and desk accessories that will enhance any office space.  The correspondence cards are hand bordered in Chocolate and Aqua.  An optional Palm Tree icon is available above your name.

The Jewel Hand Bordered Slender Cards have deep colors of precious jewels that are hand-applied to form the borders of these slender-cut cards.  Coordinating Paisley desktop box included.

The Gala Border Cards are the perfect gift for the fashionable lady on your gift-giving list.  These bright and colorful correspondence cards each feature a different cheery color combination printed in your favorite type style, making them classy, sophisticated and fun.

Knit 'n' Purl Correspondence Cards are just right for the one who loves to knit.  Our exclusive design is perfect for the knitter on your gift list.

The Bold Bordered Correspondence Cards offer colorful borders on heavyweight cardstock, making a bold statement.  These are just right for the colorful people in your life; there's nothing shy about them.

Celebrate your 25th Anniversary or 50th Anniversary in style with the classic silver and gold bordered correspondence cards, respectively.  These cards are perfect for invitations or announcements.

Do you know exactly what design, typestyle and ink color would best express your style? Create your own correspondence cards today

Correspondence Cards can be used by both men and women; it just depends on style and design you choose.  For a masculine appeal, you may choose a card hand bordered in the color of your choice with your name or monogram printed or embossed at the top.  For a feminine look you may choose an ivory paper with your name or monogram printed or embossed at the top.  You may or may not choose to embellish your stationery with the return address on the envelopes for an extra charge.  Correspondence cards can even be used for corporate purposes.  Your company's logo and name can be printed or embossed on the stationery allowing your company to make the ultimate impression.  You can even find officially licensed correspondence cards with images of your favorite NASCAR© driver or sports team.  There are so many designs currently available the possibilities are endless.  However, rest assured any design you choose is sure to make an impression on your friends and loved ones. 

(Read Correspondence Card Suggestions for more information)

Monogramming is simply the process of marking an item with an individual’s, couple’s, or company’s initials in a stylish way. A personal monogram serves a practical purpose: to identify the owner. And, often times more importantly, a monogram serves a decorative purpose: it allows the owner to send a message about her or his personal style.

Specifically when it comes to stationery, monograms send a message that the owner (or writer) knows who he or she is. When you have plenty of tasteful monogrammed stationery on hand, you’ll be able to send a message about your own personal sense of style each and every time you send a note in the mail.

With a variety of monogram styles and colors, you can add your own personal, elegant touch to your correspondence cards, notes, address labels, and so much more.

Monogram FAQs:

What’s the correct order for my initials in a monogram?

The first initial of your last name should appear in the middle, with your first initial to the left and your middle initial to the right. For example, if your name is Jonathon Kevin Swift, your monogram would read JSK.

How do I combine my initials with those of my spouse to create our monogram?

If you both share the same last name, the first initial of the last name should be listed first, with (traditionally) the woman’s initial listed first (to the left) and the husband’s listed second (to the right). The monogram for Jonathon and Anne Swift would be ASJ.

For couples who will be keeping (or hyphenating) their names, the best rule is to follow what you think looks best. A simple option is to use each initial from the two first names. Another option is to include the first and last initials of each person (4 letters total).

The beauty of personalized stationery is that you can make any design your own.  Any style can be personalized just for you.  If you wish to have an elegant design you may choose a design similar to our Embossed Pastel Stationery.  Embossing is the most elegant form of personalization offered.  Generally you can get these elegant notes in white or ecru paper and some printers even offer them in soft pink or blue.  For that extra touch of elegance, you may like some embossed letter sheets with a border around the edge.

Another elegant form of personalized letter sheets are those with deckled edges.  The deckled edge on the stationery gives it a timeless look and feel.  Our Deckled Edge Vellum Stationery is a prime example and is offered in a variety of paper colors, ink colors and typestyles.

If you prefer something a little more traditional with some color, you may choose a hand bordered design.  Our Hand Bordered Notes and Sheets offer a beautiful design that can be used for any correspondence you choose to write.  Generally this piece of stationery can be personalized with you name or monogram.  The personalization is printed in raised ink, giving a little something extra.

Letter sheets are also available for a more executive look and feel.  Generally a larger design, measuring 7 1/4" x 10 7/8", allows for plenty of space to write important letters and make a great impression on your colleagues.  Our Executive Stationery will do just that.  Remember, quality is the hallmark of being professional.

As stated before, there are several types of letter sheets available.  A few have been discussed and there are many more to choose from.  Remember that you can make just about any design fit your style and taste with all of the personalization options available.  To add to the impression you are already making with your stationery, have your return address printed on your envelopes.  Also, do not forget to order the extra plain sheets for those longer letters that you will write. 

The size you select is usually a matter of taste, style and preference.  However, as they go up in size they become more formal.  The note sheets and monarch sheets are generally used for non-business correspondence.  One point of reference is the fact that some choose to run their executive stationery through a laser printer for correspondence at work.  If you choose to go this direction you will want to make sure that flat ink is an option.  Thermograved or "raised" ink tends to melt when ran through laser printers.  Thus, smearing the ink on the stationery.

Letter sheets are generally suitable for any correspondence with others.  Letter sheets provide an elegant way to correspond in a very simple, tasteful manner.  If you prefer bright colors and fun whimsical designs you may want to choose the less formal memo sheets, memo pads, or fold notes that are available.  When responding to formal invitations, blank letter sheets are generally used.  It is a general rule of thumb to order blank second sheets because the back of the letter sheet is never used.

Letter sheets may be embossed, blind embossed, or printed with your name and address.  Letter sheets fold from top to bottom and will fit inside an envelope that is half its size.  The envelopes are generally included in your order; however, printing or embossing is usually available on your envelopes for an additional charge.

(Read Letter Sheet Suggestions for more information)

If you prefer a more elegant look, you may choose a design that incorporates an embossed name or monogram.  Generally you can get these elegant notes in white or ecru with some printers offering them in soft pink or blue as well.  For an even more elegant look, you may choose our Ultimate Embossed Double Border Notes.

If you prefer something more conventional and a little less elegant, you may choose a printed fold note rather than an embossed fold note.  These notes may be plain or may include an embossed border such as our Embossed Triple Border Notes.  These notes may not have the elegant embossing, but generally the name is printed in a thermograved ink, making the note just as beautiful.  Generally you can choose your name or monogram and occasionally you can add your favorite design or motif as well. 

The new wave of digital printing has increased the capabilities of printers and designers everywhere.  No longer are printers limited to one ink color designs.  Now the sky is the limit for designers and consumers alike; from bright and fun designs to elegant and formal.  Digital printing has not only allowed for multiple color designs, but it has also started a new fad of photo products like our Digital Photo Christmas Cards.  There are now many designs that allow you to add your favorite photo to your stationery.  This new capability is perfect for holiday cards, thank you notes and even wedding announcements.  Adding a photo to you stationery is another way of making the stationery a little more personal.

Fold notes generally measure 4 7/8" x 3 3/8" and may fold horizontally or vertically depending on the design you choose.  However, as designers continue to design new products, sizes will vary.  Most printers offer several different designs for fold notes including those designed for corporate executives, casual writers and children.  Fold notes can be personalized in thermograved or flat ink, or even embossed.  Printers generally allow for you to choose between having your name or company name, monogram or a design or logo printed on the stationery.  Fold notes can come with colored or embossed borders or no border at all.  With all of these options to choose from, you can see how this piece of stationery is not only an important part of your collection but a multi-purpose piece of stationery as well.  

Fold notes also make a great gift.  Many printers offer decorative gift boxes for the stationery to fit in.  Manufacturers usually stamp their gift boxes with their company logo, allowing your loved one to know exactly where to get there stationery when it is time to reorder.  The gift box may be topped with a ribbon or other decorative option, topping off the perfect gift for a friend or loved one. 

(Read Fold Notes Suggestions for more information)

• Moving announcements to let family and friends know that you’re moving… and where they can reach you from now on! Clever yet simple moving cards are an easy way to keep your loved ones in the loop!
   
• Shipping labels to ship everything from your old house to your new! Shop for custom shipping labels here.
   
• Luggage tags engraved with your new address. Try classic brass and leather tags with engraved name and address. Looking for something a little more colorful?  Bright, colorful luggage tags and gold stamped luggage tags in a variety of colors are fun options.
   
• New stationery printed with your new return address and a new “feel” for your new life. Shop personalized stationery here.
   
• New return address labels with your new address. Choose from a variety of colors and styles to express your new life in the your location. Shop all return address labels here.
   
• Thank you notes for all those who will help you with the move. If you’re lucky, you’ll get lots of help and you’ll want to thank every person who chipped in! Send a big thank you, a simple thank you, or a thank you from the whole family on unique, customized stationery.
   
• Invitations for a Housewarming Party or Open House...set the date and invite friends and family to help welcome you to your new home!

• If you know a card lover there are a couple offerings. American Stationery offers personalized bridge pads.
• For the children in the family there are also some options. There's the game pad set - a personalized trio of traditional games for children such as Hangman and tic-tac-toe.  What a great way to get children involved in the tradition of game night. They can play games on their level, plus they'll have a good time and not feel left out.
• Another unique idea for children is a kid's travel set. Perhaps you will have to travel for the upcoming holidays.  This set is ideal for traveling by car or plane.  It will  help the child enjoy the ride and save mom and dad from the never ending questions like "Are we there yet?" The travel set includes one pad for ABC's, one for tic-tac-toe and one that has space to connect the dots and an area for "I Spy."  The ABC pad would be a good toold for familiarizing younger children with the game of "I'm going on a trip and I'm taking..." where repetition and memory are key.

This list was designed with families in mind. Hopefully it has sparked the fun of having game night in your own home or has generated a few new gift giving ideas this holiday season.　

- A game loving customer service representative

1. A die maker engraves your custom personalization into a set of plates, top and bottom.
    
2. The plates are set into an embossing machine that consists of a sheet feeder and a press. The plates fit into slots in the top and bottom of the press.
    
3. The paper stock is loaded into the sheet feeder.
    
4. Each sheet of paper is fed into the machine, stamped and then ejected.

• First and foremost, as an adult, you must set the example. If your children see you writing thank you notes, they will come to realize that this is the right thing to do.
   
• During the early years, of course, you will do the corresponding on the behalf of your infant and toddler.
   
• 3 to 5 year olds need to be involved in the process even though you as the parent will be doing the majority of the writing. Make this a fun activity, explaining that Aunt Sally really spent a lot of time picking out the birthday present and how special that is. Tell your child how thrilled Aunt Sally will feel when she receives a note telling her how much the gift means. As you write the note, explain what you are doing and why. Leave space for your child's scribbles or have him/her draw a picture of the gift. If your child can write their name, include it at the end of the note. Recipients of these notes will count your young child's efforts as special treasures.
   
• 6 to 10 year olds can be much more involved in the actual process. Your child will think it fun to have personalized stationery. Set aside a time for the family to write their thank you notes (Christmas evening, perhaps) or sit down and write a note to a friend as your tween tackles his/her thank you notes. Be sure to be encouraging and give ideas about what to say and how to say it effectively. Let your tween use self expression instead of creating a scripted letter. Add some music to the mix and have fun.
   
• Teens have the ability to write thank you notes themselves. You should be sure that they have stationery, pens, address books, and stamps - all the necessary tools. The real trick here is to get your teen motivated to write thank yous. If you began this process in the early years, he/she will know that thank you notes are a given expectation in your family. If not, you may have to resort to bribery or whatever works for you. Although not exactly proper, an email note of thanks is better than no thanks at all.

Personalized Stationery:

First, you have a decision to make. Are you going to choose a card design based on a photo you would like to use or are you going to choose a card for its design and pick a photo that looks nice on it? If you have your heart set on one specific photo try to pick a design that color coordinates or fits the theme of your photo if a theme is applicable. If you do not have your heart set on one photo, look around and find a design you like the most and select a photo that really stands out.

Select a photo that has very little empty space. Your photo is a personal touch to the card and you want to make sure those who are receiving it can see everyone in it very well.

Try to use a photo that has the most candid or natural poses and expressions.

Photos taken in natural light seem to be brighter and crisper. Photos taken with a flash seem to wash out your surroundings.

Since most card designs have a lot of design elements to them try to select a photo where the individuals in it are wearing solid colors or basic patterns. This will keep those in the photo from blending into the design, thus making them stand out from the card.

Finally, look at photos taken from different angles. People and objects can look very different from different angles.

Most importantly, use your own judgment. No one knows what you like better than you. Selecting a photo and design you like should reflect a little bit about you and your taste.

Read a Sample Condolence Letter

You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Charlotte

(1) January 15, 2008

(2) Dear Katrina,

(3) I hope this letter finds you happy and healthy! Did you ring in the New Year in a fabulous way? It seems like so long ago that I last saw you. It's hard to believe that it was just last month that we were celebrating the Holidays together! All is well on my end. I'm still enjoying work and school...and of course, the dogs are always keeping me busy! In my free time, I've been riding my bike and enjoying the great weather we've been having. I've read a few books lately that I think you'd really enjoy. I'm setting them aside for you. While I was making my New Years Resolutions a few weeks ago, I thought a lot about the things that I am lucky and grateful for in my life. Your friendship was high on my list. (4) I sincerely hope we don't let too much time pass before we see each other again.

(5) Until then,
(6) Kelly

(7) P.S. I ran into Emily at the gym. She says hello!

• Wedding Gifts
• Baby or Bridal Shower Gifts
• Gifts and Visits Received While in the Hospital
• Sympathy Letters or Flowers
• Gifts Received Through the Mail

Re-gifting just means to "give again." Why does it have to be so negative? Re-gifting could be an opportunity to give a meaningful gift to someone else repeatedly. For instance, for your sister's birthday last year you may have gotten her something personalized especially for her. If she uses it and loves it as much as you had hoped, re-gift that same item so that she doesn't run out and keep her stock renewed.　

Another way to look at re-gifting is to look at it as a means of "passing on" the notion of a gift, not the gift itself. Maybe a thoughtful friend sweetly purchased something unique for you from a stationer. Re-gift the idea of the things you treasure. Did they invest in a piece that has really been useful and wonderfully unique? If you appreciated the gift someone else might as well.

Re-gifting does not have to mean passing your junk onto the next person. On the contrary, re-gifting can be an opportunity to give a repeat gift you know they'll like or to pass your likes onto others who would be inclined to have a similar taste or need.

• Correspondence Cards are designed to be used as a quick note for business or personal reasons. We've been told that the heavy weight of the stock and the 4 ½ x 6 ¼ size make them perfect for mailing photos. We offer a selection of correspondence cards that have a colored hand-bordered edge. Whether prim and proper or spunky and creative, there's bound to be a correspondence card that fits your personal style.
   
  
• Fold Notes are used for a longer note. Like a card, they also can be used for business or personal purposes, with styles ranging from the more formal embossed note to some very creative printed designs. Embossed notes are very popular as thank you notes. Our wide variety of printed designs range from flowers to pets, polka dots to paisley. There really is one for every personality and purpose.
   
• Social, monarch and business stationery, often referred to as letter sheets, are for longer letters or business correspondence. The difference between them is the size. Social letter sheets are for just that, social or personal writing, and are 5 ¾" x 7 ¾" or thereabouts. The monarch and executive-sized letter sheets can be used for personal letters or casual business letters and are normally around 7 ¼" x 10 7/8". Business letter sheets are for more formal business or a supply of company letterhead and measure a full 8 ½" x 11".
   
• Memos are meant to be a way to jot down a quick note to yourself or someone else. They are normally not designed to be mailed, which is why most don’t come with envelopes. We sell memos in a variety of colors, styles and sizes. Some are even self stick and make convenient office supplies.
   
• Similar to the ones you buy from racks in airports, personalized postcards are for quick, informal notes. They are a heavy weight, 5 ½" x 3 ½" card. They are perfect to send with your children to summer camp or to send a quick hello from your own vacation getaway. Unlike correspondence cards, postcards do not use envelopes and are pre-printed on the back with a designated area for the address and stamp.
   
• Ensembles are just a combination of our products. We also have ensembles that combine notes, sheets and correspondence cards. Likewise, you can get a memo ensemble that just has several different sizes of memo pads. They are perfect for someone who does a lot of writing. They also make nice gifts for the writer in the family or office.
  

A word of thanks is thoughtful, poignant and a beautiful sentiment to share. We suggest dropping a line of gratitude to those people who have done things behind the scenes, those who often go unnoticed for their hard work. Who are the folks behind the scenes of your life? 

• Mail Carrier or Newspaper Deliverer
  They see that you get your belongings come rain, shine, snow or wind, and in extreme cold or heat. Leave a little note of thankfulness in the mailbox.
• The garbage man.　
  Tape a quick thank you to the top of your trash can lid. It’s a dirty job and someone has to do it. Aren’t you thankful it’s not you?
• Neighbor
  They’ve brought in your mail while you were on vacation and probably keep a watchful eye on the neighborhood more than you realize, helping to keep all safe and a little more secure.
• Full Service Gas Station Attendant
  This individual of service doesn’t get tips, perhaps a word of a kindness saying a job well done is just what they need to hear.
• Waiter/Waitress
  Many of us have a favorite dining place and frequent it regularly enough that we have a "usual." Isn’t it nice when your coffee is kept topped off and hot throughout your dining experience?

A quick, simple word of appreciation and gratefulness only takes a few moments to write, but can linger in the mind of the one to whom you’ve given it longer than you would think. A word of thanksgiving doesn’t have to be formal, it just needs to be sincere.

Retirement

After putting in tireless years in the working world you can finally retire. The time has arrived to kick back and relax. Retirement carries you into a new phase of life. It is a time to reintroduce yourself to your spouse. as you’ll now be spending more time together. You many even get reacquainted with hobbies you have only been able to squeeze into your weekends or even pick up a few new ones. You may begin travels and new adventures. A great way to usher in this new phase of life is through a party or social gathering of family, friends, and colleagues. Once you have said your good-byes and moved on, you can continue to share your new adventures and exploits on special stationery that illustrates the new casual you.

Anniversaries

In this day and age, a flourishing marriage is certainly a thing to celebrate and cheer. The first anniversary, also known as the paper anniversary, hopefully marks the start of many more anniversaries to follow. Perhaps paper seems like an unusual gift, but it’s actually quite sweet. Allow the paper to inspire endearing love letters to your mate. Of course, let us not over look the major 25th and 50th anniversary mile markers. Marriages lasting through the decades are often celebrated with parties or even vow renewal ceremonies.

Career Advancement

Depending on the field of choice, you may have had to climb a very high corporate ladder. Maybe years of study have escalated you directly to a top notch position. Maybe you have finally been able to open your own business. No matter how long the journey, career advancement is exciting! You have been faced with challenges academically, personally, and professionally. You (or perhaps someone you know) may be deserving of some sort of accolade or recognition in honor of a job well done. Maybe a party is in order or maybe something more subdued and useful would be perfect.

Let's take a sneak peek at some of these milestones that many of you will encounter, whether in your own personal life or in those around you. Over the next few weeks we will be talking about these milestones and giving some stationery suggestions to go along with them.

Coming of Age

• First Birthday
  
  
• Bar and Bat Mitzvah
  
  
• Sweet Sixteen

Graduation

• Pre-school
  
  
• High School
  
  
• College

Life Events

• Career Advancement
  
  
• Anniversary: silver and golden
  
  
• Retirement

College Graduation

College graduation is not a feat all can accomplish. Many have left behind school friends, family and hometowns in an endeavor for higher education. College is where dreams start to unfold, relationships blossom and careers take birth. It is a catapult into the unknown. It is an opportunity to achieve greater financial stability, an opportunity to embrace a specific field of study and to take personal flight into higher elevations. College graduation is often a push away from the world of academia and a lunge onto a focused pathway.

High School Graduation:

The tune of "Pomp and Circumstance" almost resonates in your ear, yes’? High school graduation is the dream everyone strives after. Year after grueling year has been put in to achieving this high honor. It is an achievement that one works towards from kindergarten forward. A child faces many obstacles, challenges, and advancements in working towards this goal. It is an honor and one to be celebrated and acknowledged. It is the stepping stone into the military, working world or higher education.

Pre-School Graduation

A pre-school graduation is a celebration for your little one as they prepare for greater achievements in their academic development. One day the achievement of learning their A-B-C’s and 1-2-3’s and writing their name will seem quite insignificant to them. But, as a parent, it’s a huge milestone! You should be proud of how well your little one is learning. They are completing the ground work for a successful education experience. Celebrate, honor and cheer them on in their future endeavors. It will be the confidence builder they need to push them into the next stage they will face.

Sweet Sixteen

Though some may feel turning 16 doesn’t change much there are significant responsibilities and opportunities that are now afforded, such as obtaining a driver’s license or holding a job. Sweet Sixteen parties are gaining more popularity. It somewhat embodies the idea that you’re only young once and is often a point in time adults remember fondly. It’s a youthful celebration. A party in which you are no longer a little child, but are not yet viewed as an adult. Here are some stationery suggestions:

Bar / Bat Mitzvah

Though many would think of a Bar or Bat Mitzvah as a party it is actually the term given to represent youth of the Jewish faith who have now reached an age to accept certain religious responsibilities. Many families will celebrate this occasion in a ceremonial manner.

First Birthday Stationery

Though a little one may not remember this moment, it is a significant jump. Over the course of a year an infant grows, changes, and develops faster than many other stages in life. It is an occasion to delight in and remember fondly. The birthday boy or girl is special and should be honored by family and friends. A child celebrating their first birthday may not have a huge need for stationery, however, there are items available that will keep a first birthday memory alive or allow a parent to send a quick thank you note from the child to a gift giver.

Having a child is a very personal decision and certainly one that requires much planning. It is a good thing, generally speaking, parents get nine months in which to prepare. It is fortunate that pregnancy, birth, and child rearing is not something we do on our own. Everyone loves a baby and looks for ways to celebrate and pitch in, especially for the first time mom.

For the Mom-to-Be

The mom-to-be is a very special person. She is the temporary sole caretaker of the forth coming bundle of joy. But, that only lasts for a short while. Soon her little one will enter the world and mom will learn to rely on others, probably much more than she had been accustomed. One of the many ways friends and family can jump start that support process is through gift giving. A baby shower is of course the traditional way to invite family and friends into the experience as well as supply items that will get mom and dad started.

Have you ever thought about the mom-to-be that isn’t surrounded by a lot of people? Maybe she is new to town or has a limited list of extended family or maybe she is a single parent. Maybe your community has an outreach program for mothers and children in need. Something to consider, especially if you are a church or non-for profit organization, would be to throw a large baby shower. Invite (literally) local churches and other organizations to give gifts that would provide the basic, yet all important necessities a new baby will require. Invitations, even for a larger community project, add that personal affect that people desire.

For Family and Friends
Okay mom and dad, the attention has been focused on you for the past several months. You have often been the center of much attention. That will to come to a halt when your little prince or princess makes their grand entrance into the world. Rightly so. Their arrival has been highly anticipated not only by you, but by those around you. Celebrate the new love in your life with a baby announcement. You could provide all the relevant information people want to know as well as include a photo. What a neat way to say thank you to all those who have been very supportive.

Whether you or someone you know is a first time mom or on the fourth go around, there is so much to anticipate, learn, prepare, fear and look forward to. If you are the mom-to-be, embrace those around you who are willing to impart their wisdom and guidance. If you are a loved one, the mom-to-be will appreciate your efforts to equip her in many ways; materially, physically. and emotionally.

Moving Announcements

The search is over and you are now making mortgage payments. Between packing, tossing out old stuff, purchasing new stuff and getting acquainted with your new home, you may have forgotten to share your new information with everyone. Save yourself a few phone calls and emails and let the mail man do the hard work. Invest your time in the simplicity of using an "our new address" card.

You may not have had an opportunity to spend a lot of time saying your good-byes. Relocating due to a job or military transfer sometimes leaves people working on short notice. Moving announcements, such as our We’ve Moved Cards are an excellent way let your social network know you have moved. Such a card will allow you to provide not only your new address, but your phone number and email address as well. The recipient will appreciate being able to update their various address books in one fell swoop

Open House and Housewarming

You may have spent days, weeks and maybe even months looking for the house that met your expectations and dreams perfectly. Now that you have settled in, you may want to welcome visitors and entertain friends with style. Consider having a housewarming party.

It could be that you are not moving at all, a move may not have been the solution for you. A remodel or renovation may have been the alternative to your moving plans. A great way to introduce your new surroundings may be to have an open house. An open house will give you an opportunity to display your efforts and celebrate a job well done that may have involved many of your family and friends.

Whatever the reason you are planning a move, it is important to keep your family, friends & even the unavoidable bill collectors in the loop. Why send out a blah e-mail or make many phone calls to bring people up to date.

• Bachelorette Parties & Men’s Outing:
  After months of planning and nervous jitters, there’s nothing more welcoming than the bride-to-be having a night to kick back and relax. This could be a planned event with the bride's suggestions or a surprise event. Invites would be a good idea if you are planning a larger social occasion. Let’s not forget the gentlemen. Men don’t get showers, but what about having a men’s outing or a special event in honor of the groomsmen. An event such as a golf scramble could be a perfect fit for the sports enthusiast of any age range.
  
  
• Rehearsal Dinner:
  Though the rehearsal dinner is typically reserved for those directly involved with the wedding ceremony, a dinner by invite could be right up your alley. Maybe you have out of town guests that you would like to include. They have traveled far and a little extra quality time could be well deserved. Maybe your bridal party is coming from several locations, a more formal invitation just might be the key to ensuring everyone is where they are supposed to be when they are supposed to be there.

Here Comes the Bride...

Marriage is the event that takes two individuals and transforms them into one union. And with that union comes a much larger circle of family and friends. Couples getting married have a lot of things on their plate; the dress, the rings, the caterer, the honeymoon, and the list could go on and on. It is during this prenuptial time that this larger circle of individuals plays a huge role in giving support, helping to de-stress, and certainly in celebrating. Here are a few ways (besides the wedding day) that family and friends can be incorporated into the big event.

• Save the Date:
  A Save the Date card is intended to give your family, friends and soon to be guests a heads up on the special day. In some cases, this may be the first many have heard the wonderful news. This type of card could be sent when your wedding date is quite a ways down the road or if you have several out of town guests that will need to make arrangements. Perhaps you will be having a more intimate wedding at a far away locale, this type of card will allow your guests to plan accordingly.
  
  
• Engagement Announcements:
  What is the purpose of announcing your engagement or having a party to do so? It is a great way to have an informal or formal meet and greet between the two families and friends of the marrying couple.

Disposable placemats are available in many different patterns. Even your favorite photo can be turned into a beautifully functional place setting. Most people like the idea of anything that helps limit a mess.

The placemats from American Stationery are offered in an eight count regular, stain and tear resistant, or twenty-five padded disposable mats. If you are blessed with a slightly cleaner eater for a child or find yourself looking for a great table setting for a nice dinner party or family Thanksgiving dinner, then the regular style might be for you. If you want something that is made for a no fuss cleanup for easy entertaining or just casual dining on a Tuesday evening with your family, then the disposable place mats are a great choice!

Children are typically excited about their first school year experiences. Many kids have gone home and played school with their stuffed animals or imitated their favorite teacher. Here are a few items that will personalize their play and imagination.

• Your Child's Fun Penmanship Stationery
  Allow your child to practice what they learn at school at home.
  
  
• Kid's Travel Desk
  A desk of their own... just like teacher, complete with pencil cup. This desk is travel appropriate, but will also contain all their teaching goodies: pens, pencils, crayons, scissors, stickers, and more.

Pre-Teen & Teens

The pre-teen and teen alike see school as an opportunity for learning, but also for socializing with friends.  The school year is filled with all kinds of things to do with friends. Here are some ideas for your pre-teen and teen this school year.

• Kid's Pillowcases and Door Hangers
  Slumber parties and sleepovers are a lot of fun for both boys and girls. Children of this age are searching for their personal space and belongings. Why not show your child that their personal space is important to you too. Our pillowcases give a place to reflect their personality and our door hangers clearly state where their space begins.
  
  
• Bar / Bat Mitzvah Invitations and Sweet Sixteen Invitations
  Nothing is more social for a kid than a party. Your pre-teen or teen may have a variety of reasons to have a celebration. Perhaps you want to throw your child their first boy/girl party, or maybe your son or daughter is starting a new chapter in their lives, or your daughter is celebrating her once in a life time, sweet sixteen. What ever the occasion, celebrate it with a little personalized style.  

Pre-School Age

Okay, so your child hasn’t quite started school per say, but he or she is about to embark on a new journey. They will soon be getting a taste of the social aspects their school days will offer as well as the learning expectations they will face. It is during these formative years that they will learn their A-B-C’s and 1-2- 3’s. They will learn to express themselves through art and learn to recognize their own names. It is an exciting time to see little ones grasp a sense of who they are. You may begin to look for ways to encourage their development. You may want to give them opportunities to express themselves through art. yet keep some organization to their work space.

• KaDoodle Kit
  The KaDoodle Kit brings attention to their name, provides a space for artistic expression as well as a way to keep their space orderly.
  
  
• Melamine Personalized Plates
  Maybe you just want them to feel special about who they are. May we suggest a gift they can use daily? These plates show their name multiple times around a central design. If their school requires you to supply their own lunchtime utensils this would be a good way to ensure their belongings remain their belongings.

• Square Stamper
  Your room is more than likely filled with books, books, and more books. You will have books for instruction, books that have been provided by your school or books that you have invested in personally, and books for entertaining your young readers. Even though you are sharing these texts with others, it is important to still claim your ownership. It makes an easier return for the borrower as well.
• Teacher Memo Set
  This memo set would be perfect for jotting a note to a colleague. sending a note home to a parent, or even writing yourself little reminders. Perhaps even for taking a few quick notes at a faculty meeting or conference. This memo set highlights your name as well as your school. Maybe you are not the only Mrs. Doe in your school or corporation and need to distinguish yourself.

You have an important task in front you. It is your job to introduce your students to new experiences, ideas, and concepts. But, we know you are also looking for ways to keep your students engaged and actively learning.

• KaDoodle Kit
  This product could be used for a variety of purposes. But, here are a few ideas. How about utilizing this kit as an extracurricular activity or for extra credit. Instead of having a specific name personalized, perhaps the kit could just be called Classroom Doodles. Maybe you have been studying a specific topic like oceans, wildlife or space exploration. What an excellent way for a child to illustrate in drawing what they have been gleaning from lessons. Or if you have been learning about elephants they could draw it and then write a short story. Maybe you have a love for show and tell. Children are notorious for forgetting to bring things to school. Give the child an opportunity to draw that special toy and then show it during class and tell all about why it means something to them.

Your children and youngsters usually equate going back to school with getting up early and doing homework. You, however, as a graduate of the school of life, know that the school years are filled with many experiences that become fond memories. Many of those memories will be derived from the personal experiences they have with teachers and classmates.

We place a huge amount of trust in our children’s teachers. Looking back over your own school years, it probably stands to reason that you encountered some really terrific educators. So too will your children. These individuals not only impart new knowledge, but they are role models and are often a source of confidence building. It is a heavy burden teachers carry for the children in their temporary care. Teachers have chosen their field of expertise, but rarely get the credit they are due. It is not for some glorious high honor they are after. It is the satisfaction of knowing they have made a positive impact on their students.

This school year try to remember that the only reward your child’s teacher may earn is the acknowledgment of a job well done. Share your enthusiasm with that teacher with a gesture of kindness. You could have your child bring in an apple for the teacher or maybe even some colored chalk to spice up their time spent at the chalkboard. But, don’t forget them on special occasions like a holiday or their birthdays. A teacher would perhaps enjoy some personalized memos, such as our DYO Memos. This type of gift highlights their name as well as their love for teaching (by selecting our school days icon — F54).

Teachers not only need feedback from their students, but would appreciate a shared thought from you as well. Think about it, many of us focus on the negative. What a difference it would make to get a little note from a parent expressing gratitude or a kind thought. Maybe you could send a note to the teacher on your personalized stationery. Maybe you have something like our Multitasking Padded Memos that you could pull out of your desk drawer and let them know just how incredible they are.

Though a trip to the spa or a day at the beach might sound like a great treat, let us suggest somethng a bit more simple and thoughtful. Try an evening of reading, writing, and relaxation. Pour yourself a hot cup of tea and instead of grabbing that book you have fallen asleep to every night for the past week, try reading a little history. No...not a history book - your history. Many people have a shoe box or a box of keepsakes buried in the closet or tucked away under the bed. There are a lot of wonderful memories out there in the letters of days gone by. Maybe you'II find that first love letter from your spouse. Perhaps you will find a trinket given to you by Aunt Margaret or you just might even find an old birthday card from a friend that has been separated by many miles.

What an opportunity you would have to share a joyful moment with someone else. Take a little quality time to jot a simple, yet meaningful note on your favorite stationery that you may keep nestled away. Relive those memories with that someone special. You will have had some well deserved time for yourself as well as put a smile on someone else’s face.

Dear Aunt Margaret,

     I thought of you this evening as I stumbled across the locket you gave me for my birthday. The chain is a little small for me all these years later, but I am still thrilled to have it. The picture of you, mom and myself is truly a precious gem! You know, a locket would be a great "just because" gift to share with my daughter.

                                                 Much Love Always,
                                Christine

So, the next time you go looking for a little "me" time, do not hesitate to take a trip down memory lane and maybe even take the time to relive the journey.

You may be close to home, but there is a good chance you have still caught many of these memories in photo. Digital photography has really opened up a new world to the average at- home photographer. Perhaps you have captured the look of satisfaction on the face of your grilling guru. Perhaps you have captured the awe of a little one at their first fireworks display. Maybe you will even capture the element of surprise as dad falls into the lake trying to reel in ‘the big one." We encourage you to not let the everyday be less than extraordinary. If you are looking to celebrate your family, friends, and local adventures consider documenting and sharing your photos. Your personal experiences are worth a thousand words whether faraway or in your own backyard.

American Stationery offers a variety of ways to display your digital images that have certainly become priceless and a treasured commodity. Consider one of the following options for yourself or loved ones; explore our photo book options, create a photo calendar commemorating those special events, or even prepare for the holidays with your favorite photo greeting card.

Fold your letter in half. Place the crease at the bottom and the salutation facing the back of the envelope. You may want to place a flower petal or pressed rose in the letter, or perhaps a picture or other small trinket. Consider a splash of the fragrance you wear. Anything that will let your special person know that you went the extra mile to tell them how much they mean to you. Remember that you can never be too sappy when it comes to a Love Letter. Hand address your letter and seal it with more than a kiss. Consider a wax seal with your monogram or even personalized stickers. Make a special trip to the post office for something other than the basic stamp; something with hearts or a cute animal. Place the stamp on upside down. This traditionally means "I love you". Drop it in the mailbox and you are done!

Taking the extra effort to pen a Love Letter on stationery using a timeless ink, neat handwriting, words and expressions of your feelings and love or perhaps her favorite poem, sending it with a special stamp, wax seal, and spraying the pages with a dab of your favorite cologne will not go unnoticed. She will pull the letter from the mailbox in excitement and anticipation; she could notice the stamp and know that this letter is special. Reading the words you have written on the lovely stationery, she, will likely, smile, laugh, and tear up at how much you love her. She may hold the letter close to her and take in the handsome scent of your cologne, day dreaming of holding you close. Mission accomplished. Your Love Letter will show your darling just how special she is to you, and that is why you are writing the letter in the first place.

Start your letter with terms of endearment. "Dear Jane" is not the lead in for a monumental Love Letter. Consider using a pet name, or simply phrasing it "My sweetest Jane". As with any letter, you will want to state your purpose for writing. Whether your love is far away, you suddenly see your best friend as something more, or the relationship is going well and you cannot keep from bursting at the seams with how much you love this person, start by telling them so. You can be honest and express that you are not sure how to begin or what to say. Mention what the thought of this special person does to you: makes your heart race, ties you up in knots, keeps you awake at night, has you thinking about the future, makes you smile, or frightens you at how much they mean to you so quickly, to name a few. Try to refrain from negatives such as "You must think I am insane" or "I know you do not feel the same". These statements may be true, but a Love Letter is a statement or confession of love. It is not necessarily a correspondence. Be bold, be honest, and be yourself. If you tend to keep things lighthearted and fun you can still include some inside jokes or recollect funny occasions, but do avoid being too casual. This letter should be formally stating your love rather than crafting witty remarks at every line. Your reader should fall deeper in love, not laughter, after reading your words.

The body of your letter should explain why you feel the way you do. Include specific moments when you realized that you loved the person, such as what they were doing and where you were. Recall special times together and memories that you often think of. Try to avoid making lists. While it is acceptable to recount his or her qualities and attributes that you appreciate, you do not want your letter to come off as an inventory of traits. Again, focus on the way the person makes you feel and how they have impacted your life.

If you are a person that cannot express themselves well in writing, there is still another option for you. Consider a different format for your letter. Begin with an adoring greeting and pen the purpose for your letter. From there, you can explain that your words would never fully express how you feel, and state that someone else has done so more adequately than you could. From there you may choose to hand write a poem or prose that reflects your sentiments. It may be written by your lover’s favorite author or just a beautifully articulated sonnet that you wanted to share. Hand writing it out will still reflect the thought and time you have put into this Love Letter. Be sure to credit the author from whom you are borrowing, though.

After detailing your feelings, draw the letter to a close. Try to sum it up in one sentence, the crux of what this person means to you, or close by telling them what writing this letter has allowed you to do, such as "Now I can rest because you finally know how I feel" or "It is so freeing to tell you all that is in my heart". End in a positive, cheerful way. Writing this letter should leave you feeling happy and alive because you are thinking about the one that makes you happy and alive! Be sure to sign your letter with something more than just "Love, John"; you cannot write a letter of love and then close it in such an anticlimactic manner. Consider a "Forever Yours" or "All my love" salutation, something that is heartfelt and meaningful.

Appearance

First impressions are important, whether it is your first date or a Love Letter you are penning. Understand that your Love Letter may become a keepsake that your mate will treasure for years to come. Therefore this should not be something you scribble down on the nearest scrap piece of paper. Start with your stationery. Select a fine piece in ivory or white so that your words will show up clearly. You may choose to use monogrammed or personalized stationery that has your name on it. Opt for something with matching envelopes, as this will be the finishing touch when you send your letter. Next, use a high quality pen. Use black or brown ink. Avoid blue, green, red, or other colors as you want your words to be clear rather than lost in the busyness of a colorful ink. Using a classic pairing of neutral paper and quality ink will allow this message to remain timeless.

Preparation

When you set down to write your words of love, do so with purpose. This is no time for multi-tasking. Block out some time without distraction. Choose a quiet place, like an office, study, or bedroom. You may put on some romantic music or take a look at your favorite picture of your lover before you begin, to help stimulate your thoughts and feelings. Before you begin, be sure to date your letter for posterity’s sake. Pay attention to your penmanship as you write your letter. You want to write neatly and clearly so that the words can be easily understood.

The excitement you feel when you open your mailbox and see a hand addressed envelope with your name on it and it’s not a bill or credit card application. You carry the envelope into your home and carefully turn it over to see if there is a return address and name on it, then you carefully open the back flap to see what is inside or you can be like some and rip it open leaving pieces of envelope on the table. It can be an invitation to your grandchild’s first birthday, a Graduation Open House invitation, Housewarming Party, maybe a Surprise Party invitation. Some you will save the invitation and scrapbook it, put it on the fridge for a reminder and some of you will just put in a drawer for safe keeping to find at a later date and bring a smile.

Don’t get us wrong, we know the convenience of technology and are all for it. However, may we suggest sending out a personalized invitation and then later send an email invitation that is more of a reminder. Like we said there is nothing like opening the mailbox and seeing your name handwritten on the front of an envelope, knowing someone took the time and thought about you.

Glasses are a staple at any party. Whether you are celebrating a graduation, Father’s Day, a summer wedding, or just a barbecue or picnic, select the "Design Your Own Tumblers" to complete your serving needs. Is your company having a corporate picnic or perhaps a sales meeting or banquet for your top clients? Serve up your drinks in these cups. Choose from many ink colors and styles to fit your preference or theme. You can opt for a basic monogram, initials, or your name and design. These cups are durable and the perfect choice for serving your cooling concoctions. Tumblers are available in several sizes, from eight, ten, twelve, fourteen, or sixteen ounce sizes. Offered in both clear and frosted, these cups are personalized and shipped in a matter of days. Make your order now for your party this weekend!

Customarily, the maid or matron of honor hosts the bridal shower. However, it is not uncommon for a bride-to-be to have multiple showers hosted by different people. Because showers are gift giving parties, it was once taboo for the bride’s family to host, but this is no longer the case. Some conventional hosts to consider: any of the bridesmaids, family member of the bride, family member of the groom, co-workers, church members, or other friends and acquaintances.

Most bridal showers take place approximately four to six weeks prior to the wedding, but this is not a steadfast rule. Gifts are generally given for the home, such as kitchenware, bedding, bath accessories, or other home accents. Gaining popularity are the lingerie shower and the tool shower (at which the groom-to-be receives home improvement gifts from his friends), as well as the couple shower. There is no set rule for the type of shower you must throw. Keep in mind the guest of honor’s personality and know that the day should revolve around spoiling them with gifts that they will need for their new life as husband and wife.

Your Signature

Happy Holidays!

Krista, Sarah and Josh 

Love,

Brian, Jessica, Jameson & Jaxson

Love,

Brian, Jessica and family

Mailing Your Holiday Cards

Holiday Card Etiquette

We know it is a little early to be thinking of your holiday card list, but we’re going to go over a few tips to help you get started when the proper time arrives.

Holiday Card List

The first thing you need to do is think about who you will be sending cards to.  Our answer would be to send cards to as many people as possible.  We might be a tad biased, but there is some truth to it.  Holiday Cards are usually a way for you to reconnect with people you don’t see or speak to on a regular basis.  In today’s digital society that number could become a pretty large.  The best way to figure out an estimate of how many cards to order is to start with your address book and last years card list.  Start by removing old business associates and loved ones that have passed away.  Then add new friends, family members or colleagues.  This list will give you a good idea of the number of cards you’ll need.  Make sure when you’re placing your order that you order more than you think you’ll need.  It is cheaper to buy more in the first initial order than it is to order more at a later date.  It never fails after sometime between ordering the cards and actually mailing them, you’ll realize you’ve forgotten someone. 

If you’re budget is really tight this year and you can’t afford to spend a lot of money on gifts, by sending a holiday card you let someone know how much you care without purchasing a gift.  If you have purchased gifts in the past for someone, but aren’t going to this year, send them a card.  Let them know that you’re thinking of them even though there’s no gift and wish them a merry holiday and happy new year. 

Remember that Christmas is not the only Holiday

Most people do celebrate Christmas and Christmas-time for religious or nonreligious reasons.  However, it’s a good idea to remember that there are other holidays that your friends and family may celebrate instead of Christmas.  If you are not sure, feel free to play it safe by getting a card that is holiday neutral or get a mix of holiday specific and holiday neutral cards.  Holiday neutral cards are those that say “Season’s Greetings” or “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”.  We offer a variety of holiday specific and holiday neutral cards in the Holiday Greeting Cards section of our website.

Read the rest of our tips on holiday card ettiquette. 

A few ideas for girls’ night include:

·         Movie Night- you can go out to the movies and get popcorn and a coke or you can grab a chick flick and relax at a girlfriend’s house. For an eclectic selection, have each of your friends bring her favorite movie

·          Poker Night- this is not only for the guys, girls can have some fun playing poker with the Poker face

·         Spa Party - who doesn’t need some TLC! You can go and get a mani-pedi and massage or you can take turns doing one others nails and toes, the key is relaxation

·          Wine Tasting - what says unwind like a bottle of wine? Don’t think you like wine, try a few different types and see if you can find one you fall in love with. You can each bring your favorite bottle or you can go to a local winery to try their selection.

·         Sports Night - if you and the gal pals are into a certain team then who says it can’t be fun rooting your team on?

·         Fashion Swap - do you have shoes, clothes, books, home décor or antiques you need to get rid of? Everyone brings a few things they can part with and you “shop” each other’s stuff.  You can add a little zest by having every person bring a gag gift.

·         Bowling Night - beer, nachos and bowling sound fun to anyone? A little competition never hurt anyone and you will always have a story or two to tell from this night on the lane.

  For a girl's night to be successful, you need to relax, do something fun, and have enough time for conversation so you can catch up on everything your girlfriends have been up to. Even a few hours with your gal pals can improve your viewpoint and lift your mood.

If you’re looking for a fun fold note our Floral Notes is the note for you.  Stylish and practical, these notes are perfect for your everyday note needs.  Add the Floral Labels and you have a matching set perfect for gift giving.  If you’re looking for something a little less flashy, take a look at our Personal Notes.  Just the right amount of flair makes these notes perfect for personal or casual business correspondence.  Of course, you can’t go wrong with our Embossed Monogram Notes, perfect for any occasion whether it is business or personal. 

If correspondence cards are more to your liking, then take a look at either our Blue Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards Sampler or the Green Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards Sampler.  A colored border with a corresponding name makes the perfect gift.  If your giftee is a more traditional person you might consider the Classic Correspondence Cards.   Available in white or ivory with a variety of ink color options, with a block name or script monogram, they make a great gift. 

If you’re looking for a gift that’s not stationery, we have something for that too.  We have a variety of Personalized Melamine Plates that are ideal for gift giving.  The Princess Castle Melamine Personalized Plate would be just perfect for the little princess in your life.  Our Monkey Face Melamine Personalized Plate is great for little boys and coordinates well with the Silly Monkey Placemat.  We offer a variety of adult placemat sets also, like our Acanthus Placemats, which are also a great gift at just over thirty dollars. 

Feel free to browse our Gifts Under $30 category for even more great gift ideas for all of your gift giving needs.

Thank you notes aren’t necessary for every kind gesture, like when your husband picks up some groceries, but there are certain circumstances that require a written acknowledgement.  If you received a gift from someone out of the blue, were a guest of honor at a dinner party, or stayed overnight in someone’s home, then you should definitely send a thank you note. 

The best thing to remember about thank you notes is if you’re not sure whether to send one or not, it’s a good idea to go ahead and send it.  Here are few simple tips to help you when you write your next thank you note.

Time Etiquette

It doesn’t matter how you choose to say thank you, be sure to do it in a timely fashion.  Thank you notes for showers, weddings, birthdays or other special occasions should be sent out within two to three weeks, no later than five weeks, of receiving gifts.  Mail thank you notes for weekend stays or dinner parties the day after the event.  A thank you note will lose it’s meaning if you wait too long to send it.  To guarantee your thank you notes are received with in an acceptable time frame, buy thank you notes and plenty of stamps in advance to keep around the house.

Personalize It

You should always begin a thank you note by addressing the giver and thanking them for the gift.  Be specific when thanking them for the gift and mention how you intend to use it.  If you received money, replace the amount given with the word “generosity” or something similar.  Your thank you notes don’t have to be a long note.  Feel free to keep them short and too the point, just remember to always make them personal.  Below are a few examples of proper thank you notes:

            Dear Aunt Cindy,

Thank you for the beautiful wine goblets.  I can’t wait to use them at our next dinner party.  It was great getting to see you at the wedding.  I look forward to seeing you again soon.

            Love,

            Jessica

            Dear Aunt Connie and Uncle Mike,

Thank you so much for your generous gift.  We’ll think of you as we’re putting it to good use on our honeymoon.  It was great seeing you again.  Hopefully, we’ll get together soon!
Love,

            Brian and Jessica

Pace Yourself

It can be really overwhelming trying to write a lot of thank you notes all at once.  So, pace yourself.  Instead of writing them all in one night, take your time and write a few each day.  Be sure to stay organized though.  Keep a list specifying who gave you what and when you received it.  It’s much easier to write from a list than it is to try and write the notes from memory. 

Your calendar year can start on any month you choose. This is a nice tool because you can start the calendar the month a baby was born or if you are giving it as a gift you could start it in May for Mother’s Day or June for Father’s Day, December for a Christmas gift or any other month you prefer.

All elements of your photo calendar are fully customizable. You can use as many images as you like and enhance those images in many ways (fading, black and white, sepia, touch ups, etc). The Digi Lab software allows you to put images on your special dates. For example, you can place a picture in the date box of a loved one’s birthday. You can also type text in any location. The software supports several languages, too. There are 36 optional holiday overlays, designs, and starter templates to help you make your calendar distinct.

The software is easy to use. Simply download and install it to your machine. You have full control of what you want your calendar to be. Select one or two photos for each month. Then use the text boxes to add words (if you prefer) and effects such as special fonts, colors, or angles for your text. Once you have finished adding all your special holidays and birthdays to your calendar, simply save the file. You can come back to it at anytime, or simply place your order and your calendar will ship to you. If you want to create a calendar each year, you can start from your existing saved file. This will save you the time and hassle of having to retype all of those birthdays and special occasions. American Stationery and Digi Labs photo software are the total package. You can download the software for free. Use the software to design your own calendar. If you like what you see, then simply submit your order! Printing is done quickly on the highest quality paper with the finest printing materials and machines. The pricing is competitive, with these photo calendars costing less than most of the other online dealers and popular photo sites. The American Stationery difference: satisfaction is guaranteed!

Photo books are a great keepsake for displaying your most precious pictures and allow you to tell the story even better than just the photo itself can. You can make a photo book for a graduation gift that includes pictures of your graduate over their high school years. You can photo book trips or vacations. Photo books are ideal for wedding albums and honeymoon memories. There is nothing more adorable than a photo book of a new baby! If you have pictures then it can be made into a photo book. Photo books are the perfect gift for loved ones, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, or make one to keep for yourself.

Creating a photo book is so easy and can be done quickly. You can download our Digi Labs photo book software for free. It is compatible with Macs and PCs. The software is fully customizable. You can choose to use a template that lets you pick your favorite photos and will organize them automatically. But with a little more time, you can customize all of it. Choose from dozens of backgrounds and layouts. Make one page one giant picture or choose eight or nine images. It is completely up to you! You select your photos and how you want them in the book; you can even add your own wording. The nice thing about the Digi Labs software is everything is customizable. You can change ink color, font, the number of pictures you want on a page (where as most programs only have a few layouts to choose from) and you can even manipulate the pictures the way you want them by rotating and enlarging or shrinking them down. The words you add can be placed anywhere you want them (as opposed to other programs that only allow for you to type in their pre-determined text box location). If you can envision it you can make it happen in the photo book.

The Digi Labs software allows you to save your photo book. You can start it and add to it over time. For instance, you can begin with the birth of your baby and add pages as he or she grows, finishing with pictures from the first birthday party. The price of each book includes 20 pages (40 front and back), but you can add pages at a small additional cost to expand your book to 40 pages (80 front and back). Once you have created the book you desire, simply submit your order. The highest quality papers, inks, and machines are used to print your finished photo book. Satisfaction is guaranteed!

You cannot miss with a photo book. It is the perfect way to create a lasting collection of your favorite memories. Give them as a gift or make one for yourself; display them on a coffee table for everyone to see or put them back as a keepsake to go back to and reflect on at a later time. These books really are terrific!

A traditional favorite for writing notes is the gift of Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards with coordinating lined envelopes. These are available in several border colors. Navy, Hunter Green, Wine, Brown, and Black are popular colors, and they can be personalized with your choice of a script or block typestyle with your father’s name, or in a classic monogram format. You can also choose to receive the envelopes with one of our coordinating lined envelope choices. This personalized gift is a classic!

A traditional favorite for writing longer letters is our Standard Box. These sheets and envelopes are available in both white and ivory. Black, blue, brown, hunter green and wine ink are offered for a color that is sure to please. Four lines of personalization can be printed on these sheets and envelopes, in a wide array of typestyles. This personalized gift is the standard by which all others are measured!

Embossed Notes offer a sophistication that your father will appreciate. You can emboss your father’s full name on these notes, or choose to emboss his monogram instead. Embossed notes are offered in a variety of styles, many with a beautiful border embossed on the card in addition to the personalization. You really can’t go wrong with any embossed note!

If your father is a busy executive, he is sure to appreciate many of the personalized products offered at American Stationery. The Business Basics Card Ensemble is any excellent choice that offers a variety of personalized cards for him to use. Our Executive Desktop Memo Set is also a great choice that includes six personalized memos pads that can be displayed in a personalized acrylic holder. Either one of these is a choice that your Father will be proud to use.

Make your Father’s Day gift special this year. Shop personalized stationery for him that he can use throughout the year. This is truly a great way to show your Dad how much he means to you!

Several years from now your child can look back and read the letters they have received.  Likewise someone else can look back and read the letter that your child wrote. What a fantastic way to remember old friends, grandparents, or relatives. Letter writing leaves a personal record of your child’s past. Inspire your kids to write today so they can leave a written legacy for tomorrow!

To help your child rediscover the art of letter writing, first have them select a handful of people that they would like to start a correspondence with. Depending on the age of the child, you may want to help them with this. Encourage them to write to a variety of people, whether it is a friend from camp, a cousin, a pal that has moved away, or a grandparent. What a great way to get to know a distant family member better and gain insight from an older generation!

To really get a child inspired, select the perfect materials for the correspondence. Consider using personalized stationery. Children’s stationery comes in a variety of colors and themes. There are options for sports fans, little princesses, camouflage, dump trucks, or even just really bright and fun colors. Having a special type of paper and envelopes to use will make this an activity they can hardly wait to begin. When your child sees his or her name on the top of the paper it will make this project definitively set apart from school related writing. You can also select matching stickers, envelopes, or address labels to make letter writing something they will really embrace!

Letter writing should not be a thing in the past! When you delete an email or text message it is gone. A letter can be saved and read later, by you or your great grandchildren. There are countless number of books and great historical insight that has been gained from reading old letters. This is because letters are more reflective. They are personal. Handwritten notes reveal deeper feelings and emotions and are generally thought out. They take longer to write than any electronic correspondence, so they are more introspective than the traditional email. Sadly, some kids do not even contemplate these things outside of the occasional homework assignment.

There is something to be said for patience and waiting. Life is not about getting exactly what you want when you want it. Delayed gratification is a good thing, sometimes. Text messages have provided kids with a way to get answers to questions immediately. Cell phones provide communication regardless of where you are. Letters are a great way to teach patience to children. When you write a letter you do not get an answer instantly. You can go to the mailbox each day in anticipation. Amongst the junk mail and bills there might actually be a note in response. What a feeling to get something good in the mail! They give that feeling of excitement and surprise to someone else when they send a letter. If they get one in response, they get to see their name and address in print. They also get that good feeling of knowing that someone took the time to think of them and sit down and personally pen a letter, in return.

The first step is to begin keeping a memo pad on your refrigerator. In doing so, you can keep a running list of anything that you are about out of or need throughout the week. Next, plan your menu using the circular. Your local grocery stores advertise in the circular and based on sale items that week (particularly meats and vegetables) you can determine what you want to prepare for the week ahead. Use a separate memo pad for the menu. You can post this on your refrigerator as well so that you and your family know what to expect for meals. Planning your menu will help you to visualize what food will be eaten. Be sure to include meals out on your menu. This way, you can use leftovers most effectively, instead of throwing it out. Setting your menu will help you to easily determine what you need to pick up at the grocery store. It will reduce the number of trips you make to the store, and in turn help you to reduce your gas prices.

Once you plan your menu you can start writing your grocery list. Peruse your pantry and refrigerator to see what you already have. Make sure any recipes you will be using are out so that you can reference them and write anything you need to prepare them on the grocery list. The grocery list will help you from overbuying on food or making impulse purchases that you don’t need. Write your list. Some people prefer to lump the list by the location in the grocery (i.e. produce, frozen, meat, etc) but this isn’t absolutely necessary. Grocery lists are an asset in today’s economy. They are one easy way to save on food. The key to cutting costs is no further than a memo pad on your refrigerator!

Letter writing lets you be yourself. It gives you an outlet to express who you are. Choose a style, color, and font for your stationery that reflects you. Using this stationery will say more about you than plain old words ever could.

Clever

Practice makes perfect in all aspects of life. Letter writing is no different. The more you write the better you’ll be. If you’re still working on becoming a good writer, practice on your friends and family.

Confident

Keep in mind when writing letters that "it’s not what you say but how you say it." Nothing could be more true when it comes to letter writing. As you write more you will develop a definitive written voice. You might actually find it easier to express yourself through your writing than through speech.

Appreciative

You’ve probably all been told about the importance of thank you notes. Birthday presents, graduation gifts, wedding presents, baby gifts are just a few situations that call for thank you notes. But have you ever considered sending a thank you note for the everyday things you’re grateful for? Try thanking someone for their friendship through the years, or a mentor for their support and encouragement. These unexpected thank- you’s are even more rewarding for you and the recipient than the standard thank you.

Considerate

It’s always a good idea to treat people how you want to be treated. Imagine those rough patches where a little extra encouragement from your friends made all the difference. Do you know any one who’s going through a rough patch? Why note send them a note letting them know you’re thinking about them. You’d be surprised how much comfort, love and strength they’ll get from your small gesture.

Successful

Directly after a job interview you should send the interviewer a sophisticated, professional note thanking them for their time and consideration. Once you’ve landed the job and are starting your climb up the corporate ladder don’t forget to thank the people who have helped you get where you are today. You never know when you’ll need a recommendation or reference, sending them a quick, cordial thank you note will go the extra mile and help keep you in their good graces. So if you do for some reason need a letter of reference from them it will be a good one.

Courteous

In today’s society most people’s idea of manners leaves a lot to be desired. By using handwritten notes to say "thanks,""congratulations," or "you’re invited" you’ll be a stunning example of perfect etiquette and common courtesy. The recipient of your hand written note will appreciate the thoughtfulness of your gesture.

Well-Liked

We live in a technologically advanced world where c-invites and phone calls are the norm when inviting people over. By using hand written invitations you give off an air of preparedness and style. Your guests will have a hard time turning down a handwritten invitation. Your event will also be hard to forget since they have the invitation as a physical reminder of your party.

Joyful

Don’t forget the old saying "Give and you shall receive." Start a tradition among your friends where you write letters back and forth. The letters don’t have to be just about special occasions; they can also be about everyday happenings. Seeing a handwritten note from a friend in their mailbox will lift their spirits and make their day a little better. You can also keep the letters as a keepsake of your friendship and shared experiences.

Proud

Letters are the perfect way to share all sorts of happy news. Write a quick note to keep the important people in your life up to date with your achievements, like moving, having a baby, getting married, changing jobs, or graduating.

Write a letter to a soldier.

Why not do your patriotic duty and play a part in history? Why not become a pen pal to a military person overseas. A letter from you may be the only mail they get to remind them of home and who knows, you’re letter might be the only thing keeping them going in the dark world they’re in. There are websites you can join like Soldier’s Angels that will set you up with your pen pal.

Write a letter to the editor of your local paper.

Have you ever read a newspaper article that just really caught your attention? Don’t keep your feelings to yourself anymore. Write a letter expressing how the article made you feel and it could end up in the paper, too. There is some required information though when writing a letter to the editor. You’ll need to include your full name, home address and telephone number for verification purposes. Visit your newspaper’s website to get the editor’s contact information.

Write a letter to an important teacher.

Chances are there you had a teacher that really made an impact on your life. Why not let them know just what they meant to you? You can usually get their contact information from their school.

Write a thank you note for a random act of kindness.

You write thank you notes for the big events in life, why let the little things go unnoticed? Each random act of kindness deserves another and writing a thank you letter is just that. Why not write a thank you note to the neighbor who fed your dog while you were on vacation or to the coworker who always makes the coffee in the morning?

Write a recommendation letter.

There is someone in every group who is doing miraculous things and going unnoticed for them. Why not bring the appropriate attention to that person by writing a letter saying how great they are doing and sending it to the proper leadership.

Write a letter to your hero.

Your hero can be anyone from your mom to your favorite sports player. Write a letter letting them know what you admire most about them. Send the letter to their fan club, home address or hang it on your wall to remind you of the type of person you want to be.

Write a love letter.

Everyone has love in their life, whether it is your spouse, your dog or your favorite food. Why not let that special love know just how you feel?

Write clearly.
This tip isn’t just about grammar. We also mean penmanship. When you write a letter you need to use decent handwriting. For some of you this might be asking a lot, but at least try. Proper grammar is also important when writing a letter. Try to avoid spelling errors. Nice handwriting and proper grammar not only makes the letter easier to read, it makes it look nice too.

Get personal.
You don’t have to write about all the intimate details of your daily life, but there’s nothing worse than getting a letter that seems like it was written and then copied for a group of people. You want your letters to be personal to each recipient not like a form letter for a whole bunch of people. The more connections you make between your life and the readers life the better.

Encourage a response.
Obviously the easiest way to go about this is to actually ask the reader to write back. A discreet way of doing this is to include your return address somewhere in either in the letter. This way the recipient can respond when they want to.

Write on eye-catching stationery.
Don’t misunderstand this tip. You don’t actually have to have a whole collection of colorful paper and professional stationery to write your letters on, although we have plenty to choose from if that’s what you want to do. The important thing is that you use good quality, attractive paper that reflects your personality and style. If you write on a crumpled, stained piece of paper then just think of what that says to the recipient. It’s simple really: your paper, your style.

Every playful youngster gets tuckered at some point. Let them rest their sleepy little heads on a personalized pillow case! Choose from customized screen printed names in pastel rainbow colors, handsome blues and greens, or choose from our character prints which accent the name with images of puppies, kittens, or sports balls. There are so many options and each is sure to please! These are great at home but also make a nice choice for traveling, heading off to camp, or just group sleepovers; since the personalization is built right in there is no need to label a pillow or worry about mistakenly switching it with someone else.

Teens and tweens can be difficult to buy for. Consider our special door hanger or pillow case designs geared toward that slightly older kid that wants to decorate their space in a unique way. The "Uptown Girls" design features some savvy girls decked out in their trendy clothes and jewelry. They are looking pretty in pinks, ready to take on the mall, or give their friends a call on the phone. This look is a great idea for that girl that seems to be growing up so quickly. For the guys, consider our "Skateboard" design. These images feature a bright blue backdrop with pyrotechnic colors and some skaters nailing tricks and hitting jumps on their boards. The door hanger cautions all who enter that this space belongs to one cool dude.

Look no further than the American Stationery Company for great personalized gifts for children of all ages!

A child’s bedroom is their haven. It can be a castle or a fort one minute, and a peaceful place to lay a sleepy head the next. Let them proudly place their name in their room with a decorative sign, personalized pillow case, or door hanger.

The Ballerina sign features two sets of pretty pink ballerina shoes, a light pink pin stripe back ground and your tot’s name as the center of attention for this design. It is the perfect choice for your tiny dancer.

For your beautiful princess, select the Princess sign design. The customized name is set on a pretty pink crown, bookended by a stately horse drawn carriage. Whether she’s the belle of the ball or playfully dreams of being a little princess, this sign will let everyone know that this regal room is hers.

For the sports nut, consider the Sports room sign. Soccer, tennis, golf, basketball, baseball, and football equipment adorn this handsome sign. This is a great choice for that active little one in your life!

Maybe your child’s room is always a work zone. Whether he or she loves cars and construction or tends to keep things slightly messy like a work area, this Construction sign is a great look. This sign features bright yellow caution tape, orange cones, dump trucks, men with hard hats, and road work, setting the tone for your little builder’s name above a road sign marking their room.

Each sign is made of pressed wood with a glossy finish. They are built to last and come ready to hang with included hardware. These signs make great gifts for kids and allow them to decorate their room and put their own personalized touch on it with, what else, but their name!

So, you’ve been invited to a party and you know, because you are such a classy and chic lady that bringing a gift to the hostess is the proper thing to do.

But, what should you bring? A bottle of wine is always a great choice however; many others may bring a bottle as well. What about a nice house plant? Always a terrific choice as well again though it is often done. However, stationery is a timeless and unfortunately not often thought of gift for your party throwing pal.

Many people love to take the time to send a note to a friend and when they already have stylish important stationery at their fingertips they are more likely to do so. Chances are your host will have a few people to thank for their efforts in the party throwing process.

Maybe she will need to thank her always thinking sister who remembered to bring ice at the last minute for the cocktails. Also, her best friend deserves some praise for lending out her favorite candleholders. Or even the caterer who went above and beyond to exceed her expectations.

No worries on whether or not your friend will need the gift or use it because personalized stationery is always appreciated! Now, depending on how well you know your hostess will help you to determine what style of stationery suits her best.

One of the most popular items we sell is the SEN. This item is called the timeless embossed note for a reason. The paper is lovely and durable available in four color choices and the embossing gives it that little je ne sais quoi without being over the top. Invited to a garden party? Think of ordering the Hydrangea notes and seals for your hostess. You’ll be hard pressed to find another note that holds such beautiful color and detail. The accompanying seals add just the perfect touch to the bank of a plain envelope. This is the right choice for your garden clubs president or that neighbor who always has the most pristine peonies and insists on showing them off every June during a fabulous soiree.

For your niece who is just learning the ropes of entertaining and etiquette, consider purchasing the Write in Style notes. These modern and sophisticated notes are just the thing make sure she keeps her correspondence (including thank you notes) up to date.

Remember there are a million different options out there for what you can bring as a gift and stationery says you think she’s responsible, proper, and chic. Who wouldn’t want to be thought of that way?

The billiards sign is green, just like a classic table complete with cue sticks, a beer, and an up close shot of the brightly colored billiard bails, racked and ready to break. Add a year (as an established date) and name to the sign and your gift is ready to give to your favorite pool shark.

For the poker fan, select this poker lounge sign. Just like the cards themselves, the lounge sign is done in brilliant red and black, complete with four of a kind aces and stacks of chips to accent the personalized lounge name. Go "all in" and give this gift to your favorite poker player.

For the person that loves a dip in the pool or just wishes to be whisked away to paradise, the tiki hut sign is a great choice. It looks great in a pool house, outdoor bar, or patio area! The sign reflects the relaxing island life with a beautiful sunset, crashing waves, surfboard and deliciously refreshing frozen concoction (complete with mini umbrella) positioned above the customized name. What a treat to recreate an oasis at home!

The old Irish pub design is a classic look for any home bar or recreation area. The perfect gift for that person of Irish descent, this pub sign features a weathered wood grain backdrop, clover, and stein of beer. Personalized with an established year and name, this sign also features an Irish saying: "May your pot of gold always be filled to the brim, and your beer stein also."

For the traditional bar look, choose the tavern sign. The simple brick design with the words: "It’s always 5:00 pm" and "Family owned and operated" arc a nice accent to your personalized tavern name. This is, again, a great choice for a game room, wet bar, kitchen, or den.

For a touch of elegance and class, turn your wine cellar, kitchen, or wet bar into a personalized winery with the Red Wine Sign! A picture of a wine bottle and glass of port, with a Tuscan landscape backdrop are the highlight of this piece. Framed in a faux aged, vintage wine label border, your customized winery name is scripted at the top. What a fine looking sign for the wine connoisseur in your life!

We hope these new offerings from the American Stationery Company are exactly what you have been looking to give as a gift for the person that seems to have everything. We are proud to offer quality paper products and so much more!

Though stationery is the first thing that comes to mind for an item that can be personalized, customized gifts actually come in a variety of options. The American Stationery Company has several new arrivals to their catalog.

Candles are an incredibly versatile gift, no matter what the occasion. Take it up a notch and give a personalized candle gift. Made of one hundred percent palm wax, our candles burn nearly soot free. Both natural and biodegradable, they are infused with pure plant based oils for a clean, neutral scent. Offered in a pleasing champagne color, this candle will look good in any room, regardless of decor. The candle comes in two sizes: a three inch square pillar and a four inch square pillar. You can customize two to three lines or opt for a trendy monogram with the recipient’s initials. The personalization is deeply carved into the side of the candle in the font you choose.

Another new product offered is the personalized spa soap sets. Select a handsome monogram or three lines of print, these soap bars are a unique gift! Crafted fresh in Vermont and triple milled for extra rich lather, this bath essential is the perfect choice for a spa gift set or basket. Consider this option, too, for the individual that often entertains company, as these custom soaps would look lovely in a guest bathroom. The water based bar is gentle on the skin and the warm white color will fit in with any color scheme.

Today calligraphy continues to flourish as an art of beautiful, elegant handwriting that is timeless. American Stationery offers a wide assortment of calligraphy products for you to choose from, and most of them are hand drawn by our in house calligrapher. This highly decorative handwriting appears to waltz across the paper on our personalized products. A selection of notes, sheets, calling cards, and correspondence cards are all available with hand calligraphy.

These four items and many more are available for you to order at American Stationery. We are pleased that we can offer the elegance of calligraphy at such an affordable price. If you are looking for a truly unique personalized gift be sure to check out our calligraphy products. Hand drawn calligraphy does require additional time, but it will be well worth the wait!

Put thought into the paper.

Important business letters shouldn’t be written on just any note card. At the same time you probably shouldn’t write a letter of condolence on business stationery. Think about what kind of letter you’re writing and then pick the paper accordingly.

Stay alert.

When writing your letter stay focused on what you want to say and what you want to happen once the letter has been read.

Take a step back.

If while writing your letter you feel like you’re getting overwhelmed with emotion take a step back, take a break. Come back to your letter in a few hours once you’ve cleared your head and read it to make sure it says what you actually wanted it to say. Now that you’ve got a clear head you might notice a few things you’d like to change.

Get technical.

You’re computer has a spelling and grammar check for a reason. Don’t be afraid to use them. Type up a rough draft of your letter on the computer and use the grammar tools to help edit your letter. Then write out your final draft. This can be extremely helpful when writing business letters.

Produce a perfect ending.

Remember that the last things you say in the letter are the last ones the reader will read. More often than not, they’re also the things the reader remembers most about your letter. Be sure to end the letter with a positive tone, either by expressing thanks, gratitude, admiration, or affection. Whichever way you choose to end your letter be sure to end it politely.

• Ladies day out
  Our Pastel Border Note Assortment is the perfect note card to use when organizing a Ladies’ Day.
• Father/son go if outing
  Your guys will be the talk of the green when you use our "Hole in One" Correspondence Cards to announce tee time.
• Prayer Group
  Our Golden Cross Cards are the perfect way to let people know when the next meeting is.
• Dinner with extended family members
  Why not invite the family over for dinner, you have to cook any way right? They’ll be happy to come when they receive your invitation in the mail when it’s written on our Favorite Hand Bordered Notes.
• Children ‘s play dates
  Our Swizzle Notes are the perfect way to invite friends to a day at the park.
• Beach Trips
  Our Starfish correspondence cards are a great way to invite friends and family to a day of fun and sun at the beach.
• Movie Night
  For an invitation to movie night any blank note card will do, but why not do it with style and use our Jet Black Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards. Be sure to remember the popcorn!
• Game Night
  Impress even the biggest game enthusiast with an invitation written on our "Cards, Anyone?’ Cards.
• Book Club
  Our Bibliophile Correspondence Cards are perfect for book club meeting reminders.
• Going Away Parties
  Use our Bon Voyage! Correspondence Cards for invitations to any farewell party.

Last minute dinner invitations

Just because the dinner party is last minute doesn’t mean you should call people to invite them. Phone calls not only take up a lot of time, but it also makes your friends feel obligated to make a decision right then. Sending invitations frees up some time for you and it gives your friends some time to decide. Don’t send emails either. Put your blank note cards to use and write a quick "invitation". Here are some tips to help you turn your note cards into inviting invitations:

• Casual and simple
  "Stop by next Saturday for a cookout. Burgers, drinks, and games are on us. Plan on eating around 6:30 and feel free to stay as long as you’d like. Be sure to bring big appetites, music, and good sports!"
• A more formal event
  "Please join us for a Sunday morning brunch complete with champagne mimosas. Coffee, tea and a variety of delicious treats! Sunday February 22 at 10:00 am to 12:30 at Jessica’s house. Please let me know if you plan on coming.
• Extra uses for your blank note cards
  Write out the menu for the meal and put a few copies on each table.
  Write individual place cards for each person to make a seating arrangement.
  Make tags for the food on the buffet so the guests know what’s what.

Belated Birthday Cards

There’s nothing worse than forgetting someone’s birthday. Why make a trip to the store and make the card any later than it has to be? Use one of the blank note cards you have on hand and get it sent that much sooner. Here’s an idea for writing a birthday greeting that will help them forget it’s late:

Happy Belated Birthday Leah! I’m so sorry I couldn’t be there to help you celebrate the big day. Sorry this note didn’t quite make it in time either. I hope you had a great day and I wish you lots of happiness in the year to come. You deserve it! Lots of love as you begin your 27th year. Let’s get together soon to celebrate!

Love, Jessica

The USPS has established a standard addressing plan for all domestic mail. Many will of course recognize this as:

Name	Name	Name
Street Number	P.O. Box	Rural Delivery
City, State  Zip Code	City, State  Zip Code	City, State  Zip Code

In order to make Military Mail conform to this standard, several thing were created. These were:

Three Military "States":

AA stands for Armed Forces (the) Americas
AE stands for Armed Forces Europe
AP stands for Armed Forces Pacific

Two "City" equivalents:

APO stands for Army Post Office
FPO stands for Fleet Post Office

A typical Overseas Military address looks like this:

Name
Postal Service Center - Identifier
APO, AE ZIP

Or

Name
Postal Service Center - Identifier
FPO, AP ZIP

Now when you receive that overseas Military address from you son, daughter, grandchild. niece. nephew or friend you will understand what the abbreviations stand for and the mystery is gone.

Thank you to all of our brave men and women, past and present, who are serving or who have served our country.

Not understanding how to use punctuation symbols in sentences is another of the common mistakes in letter writing. Placing unnecessary commas in sentences can confuse and irritate readers. Punctuation symbols used incorrectly can change the tone and message of your letter in unintended ways. Learn how to use punctuation correctly.

Let the run-on-sentence not be forgotten as one of the common mistakes in letter writing. Many people struggle with when to stop a train of thought or how to properly punctuate a compound sentence (really two complete sentences in one). It can be agonizing trying to determine the perfect spot to end a sentence with a period, and thus begin a new one -- or where to place a comma, or when to use a semi-colon instead. For the average writer, it is best to read your sentence aloud. This is often the most helpful tool for determining where one sentence needs to end and another begin.

Unintentionally focusing your letter more on yourself and not on the letter recipient is another of the common mistakes in letter writing. Be stingy about using "I" in your letters except where necessary in the context of a particular sentence or paragraph. "You" places the focus where it should be -- on the letter recipient. Use this word as often as possible in the natural flow of your letters.

Wordiness is another of the common mistakes in letter writing. Most of us are very busy people. We do not want to have to spend a lot of time reading something that is ripe with unnecessary wordage cloaked around the real message contained in the letter. The shortest path to what you want a reader to know by reading your letter is always the best path. Pay attention to coherence as well. People do not want to read a letter that is all over the map. There needs to be a sensible and sequential flow of ideas and points made in your letters.

Look for these common writing mistakes in your letters, and fix them before they leave your home or office.

You may be familiar with many of the following common mistakes in letter writing, that's what makes them "common"! It is not the end of the world; avoiding these errors, however, should help you to communicate your message more clearly and avoid unnecessary embarrassment at the same time. By proofreading, you can fix the mistakes you find and no one else has to know that they were in your original draft.

Some proponents of online mail and instant messaging would prefer to relegate the practice of letter writing to the history shelves. The art of letter writing is actually not in decline. Many people still use this technique to attract attention and add personality and style to their messages. Handwritten communications are much more personable than computer and other technological mediums. Technology cannot duplicate the uniqueness of handwritten expression.

One common mistake to avoid is the use of impersonal or generic salutations. Dear Sir or Madam, or the famous To Whom It May Concern, in place of a name is not the best writing strategy. Many times, a generic salutation leads the recipient to not even read the letter or to take it less seriously. It is always best to ask peers, research the company profile through the internet, or do whatever you can to find out the name of the person to whom you are writing the letter so that you can greet them properly. There will inevitably be times (the fewest as possible is best) that the most diligent searching will not provide you with a name, and you will have to use this most impersonal greeting in writing your letter.

Another of the common mistakes in letter writing happens because too many people trust the "all clear" that spellchecking programs are prone to give, despite errors that can be clearly seen and also heard when read aloud, when you bother to proofread your letters. Spellcheckers should be your first line of defense as you are writing your letter. However, you should back this up by looking your letter over yourself after you have finished the first draft.

Common Sense

Common sense is the basis of etiquette. For example, when you’re writing an invitation you need to include the essential information if your want your guests to actually come to the party. They need to know the specifics, like time, date, and location. An invitation, if worded properly, includes all that information and announces it in a way that is to the point and easy to understand. The rules of etiquette are there to help you accomplish just that.

Civility

When civility is used, relationships are strengthened and become more rewarding. It requires us to be more understanding of others. The guidelines of etiquette might not always seem proper. If the guidelines you’re trying to use seem like they might offend someone, let civility take over. Find a way to be proper in your actions and wording that also takes the unique audience and situations into account, since the last thing you want to do is offend a loved one.

Practice

The third idea is practice. The old adage, "practice makes perfect," has certainly proven true in your life, so why not in your use of etiquette. By practicing, you make proper etiquette more common and people who do not use etiquette in their correspondence may indeed take up the practice as well. Practice also helps you take an etiquette guideline that civility says disagrees with your situation and vary it to fit without doing extra research.

If you have an ultra feminine Mom one of the following will be sure to please her. The Pretty Vines Note and Label Set are available in Mint Green, Pale Blue or Soft Pink. They are a lovely fold note with matching envelope labels. These notes accent the personalization in a very soft and feminine way. Another lovely note is the Hydrangea Bouquet Note Set. These feature a fresh bouquet of stunning hydrangeas and have matching circular envelope seals. Either one of these is a light and graceful choice that your Mother will be happy to use.

So, make your Mother’s Day gift something unique. Give her personalized stationery that she can use throughout the year. She will know that you planned ahead and took the time to select something that is a good match for her. What better way to show your Mom how much she means to you!

If your Mom tends to be traditional she will probably enjoy a gift of Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards with coordinating lined envelopes. These Hand Bordered Correspondence Cards come in a wide array of border colors; Navy, Hot Pink, Hunter Green, Wine, Purple, Brown, Black, Red, Yellow or French Blue to name a few. They can be personalized in your Mother’s name in your choice of a script or block typestyle, or you can just highlight her initials in a classic monogram format. Depending on your border color choice you can personalize her cards in a matching ink, or choose to accentuate her name in a complementary color. You can complete your gift by dressing up the envelopes with one of our beautiful lined envelope choices. This gift is sure to say "I care" in all the right ways!

If your Mom has more of a classic taste, consider one of the following choices of fold notes. The Ornate Embossed Name or Initial Notes feature her initials or name and single initial in a sophisticated embossed type. The personalization is surrounded by a richly double embossed border that adds to the charm. Another classic choice would be the Cherish Embossed Notes. These elegant fold notes feature your Mom’s name in and embossed script font surrounded by a lovely embossed floral motif. She will be proud to use either one of these selections when sending out her next note to a friend or loved one.

Similar to the muscles of your body, the brain needs lots of regular exercise for optimal functioning and long-term health. Writing stimulates your neural activity. A byproduct of stimulation to the brain is the production and release of natural chemicals your brain and body need in order to function properly. These hormones are also responsible for producing feelings of happiness, contentment, pleasure, excitement, love, and other "feel-good" emotions.

Challenging yourself with various writing drills exercises the brain and mind. The psychological benefits of this include increased comprehension, memory, retention of information and decision-making skills. Keeping your mind "fit" in the present provides more benefits in the future as well. Scientific studies have shown that some older adults demonstrate higher rates of memory recall and mental acuity well into their advanced years via practicing brain-stimulating exercise such as writing and writing drills.

There is also documented and anecdotal evidence about the psychological benefits of writing as observed in clinical settings. A reduction in the risks for developing depression and other physiological disorders is a benefit of writing which has broad implications. Stable moods assist people to better relate with others and to improve their relationships. Having a positive outlook on life leads others into trying new things and achieving their life goals. People who do not actively suffer from depressive and other psychological disorders generally live longer and more fulfilled lives than those who do. Writing can help you to lift yourself out of the doldrums before it can take over your life and become a major issue.

Writing improves your mood and mental health in a variety of great ways. Get out paper and pen, or open a new file and begin writing. Enjoy all that writing has to offer in your life.

The human mind can become overwhelmed and thinking befuddled when presented with massive amounts of information. Stress may escalate especially when all that information is coming into the brain at a fast pace. This kind of pressure causes the majority of the misunderstandings and mistakes that people experience. Your brain is not just receiving information from outside sources. Your mind is constantly creating new information (ideas and perceptions) for your brain to process as well. We are not always consciously aware of this. However, even in sleep, our minds are at work creatively. Whether this information is coming from outside or inside the brain, it also produces feelings, and the brain must process these new feelings. It is therefore understandable why people become confused, lose focus, or have difficulty making decisions with all this activity going on.

Writing has the psychological benefit of "releasing" information onto paper or into a computer document. This frees up "space" so that your brain and mind can perform the processing of new information, and corresponding perceptions, thoughts, and feelings, without becoming overwhelmed.

By writing down some of what is swimming around in your head, you can get a clearer picture of what information you have and what you might be able to do with it. Writing enables you to take tidbits of ideas and inklings of possibilities and turn them into clear- cut goals with a definite direction from which to launch efforts towards successful fruition. Being clear on what you need to do helps raise performance level, and maintain the motivation to continue with projects to the finish. It is easy to see how this could be beneficial in your personal life as well as at work.

A surge in confidence, self-esteem, and sense of accomplishment are all psychological benefits which are possible through writing. Experiencing these positive emotions is akin to writing your own prescription for success. People with high levels of confidence, self- esteem, and the ability to accomplish things have greater happiness or overall satisfaction than those who do not experience these important emotions.

Send announcements, write thank yous, or send general notes using our sweet pastel hand bordered notes. 

The hot pink hand bordered notes are an especially fun and modern way to communicate with friends and family on behalf of your little girl.

Kids

Even if your little one isn't talking or writing on his own yet, you can help him start communicating in style!  Stationery personalized for kids is a great option for hand-writen birthday present thank-you notes and more.

Kids Critter Notes come with your child's name and favorite animal. Optional printed envelopes are also available to help encourage your little writer to drop his masterpiece in the mail.

The geometric notes are a colorful and popular option for young writers of all ages

Teens

Teen stationery should be fun AND functional.  Custom notes and envelopes allow teens to express who they are in a sophisticated (but not stuffy) way.

One great option for teens is the friendly, personal notes, which provide a crisp yet casual look.

For the bolder teenage, polka dots or curls and swirls might really be her style.

The light-hearted graduation notes are a great way for graduates of all ages to send thank yous, invitations to parties, and announcements

Decorative stationery for social use really lets you express your personality more than what is generally acceptable to display in business, and to make a variety of statements to suit your every mood. You can choose from funky, contemporary, classic, and humorous designs with personalization of your choosing. You can find affordable, quality-made personalized stationery in such a wide assortment that you never have to use the same stationery twice for different occasions unless you choose to do so. Each style or design makes a statement of its own and choosing one over another is simply a matter of the message you wish to send at the time.

Can decorative paper, which is what stationery essentially is, make a statement for you? Do the personalized designs you have chosen for your stationery really “speak” to others or do they only speak to you? Personalized stationery can make any number of statements. Because personalized stationery makes a statement whether intentional or unintentional, it is wise to think about what statement or statements you hope to send others. The words you write on your stationery are not the only “conveyors” of your message.

Define Your Identity

To the contrary, personalized stationery says a lot. Personalized business stationery for instance, relays to others that you are a confident and successful businessperson. It can illustrate that you are a detail-oriented professional. Conveying an image of confidence, attention to detail, professionalism, and geared toward success, combines to be very attractive in business.

With personalized stationery you can also make a number of statements about yourself among your family, friends, and social contacts. Your personalized stationery may tell others whether you have a somewhat whimsical or very serious personality. Alternatively, it may tell them that your personality falls somewhere in-between the two. Perhaps you are even of the personality that you want to keep them guessing about what your real personality type is. Trust me; there is a personalized stationery choice just for that.

Do not be fearful of letting personalized stationery make statements about your personality, tastes, and business aptitudes. Self-expression can be very liberating and satisfying. From a personal and career standpoint, finding and using as many effective ways possible to acquaint others with whom you are and what makes you tick is a great decision. Put your best and positive self out there so that the people that matter in your world can get to know you better. Make positive statements about yourself with personalized stationery, and chances are very good the results you get back will also be positive.

Cell phones, texting and email technology has not eliminated the need for handwritten letters and invitations. In fact, sending messages via fun and unusual paper designs is becoming more popular than ever. Many people recognize the value of a solid piece of paper. If you have not shopped for stationery in a while, you will be pleasantly surprised with the great variety of personalities and messages you can express with today’s personalized stationery.

Project Your Business Image

For personalized business stationery, stick with a crisp, smart-looking design to make a solid statement about your high level of professionalism to those who receive business letters and other paper communications from you. Some stationery suppliers also provide an electronic template matching your personalized business stationery, so you can send messages to business contacts through the internet while maintaining your branding image. This can be far better than the ordinary and boring design of typical email messages. Smart business professionals use personalized business stationery because they know it makes an influential statement about them to those they work with or desire to work with.

Personalized business stationery should exhibit a subtle and professional design in order to send the right messages. Nevertheless, that does not mean that you cannot add some “personality” to your business stationery. Create a snazzy company logo or pay a professional designer to create one for you. A logo is an acceptable way to add some eye- catching flavor to your business stationery while still keeping it looking professional and business-like. So go ahead and make a statement with personalized business stationery.

• Don't send a thank you email.  This is really too impersonal.  It shows that you didn't want to take the time or effort to write an actual thank you.
• Don't write, "Thanks for the gift.  It was great!"  You should always mention the gift when writing a thank you.  That way the giver knows that you know which gift was from them.
• Don't use pencil.  Pencil is temporary and often times messy.  Use black or blue ink.
• Don't type your thank you.  Again, this is too impersonal.  You should hand write the thank you using ink.
• Don't mention dollar amounts.  It is tacky to thank she person for the $40 they sent.  Instead say, "Thank you for your generous gifts.  It was really appreciated."

1. Greet the Gift Giver
   How formal you want to be here will depend on your relationship with the person as well as the message you want to convey.  You don't have to start addressing your sister as "To My Dear Ms. Emily Kate Witherspoon" just because you are thanking her for a lavish birthday gift.  On the other hand, if you want to show respect to your great Aunt Beatrice by following traditional etiquette, you might not want to scribble "Hey Aunt Bea."  Follow the path that feels right to you...just make sure to mention the gift giver by name.
   
   
2. Say Thanks
   This seems like it would be the easy part, but for some reason it's usually not that simple.  Don't get stuck...just say it!  If "thank you for the pretty bouquet of flowers" sounds like an overly simple sentence to you, it's because it is...and that's what makes it so perfect.  The point of your note is to acknowledge that you received the gift and to express your thanks.  Stick to the point. 
   If you received cash as a gift, never mention the monetary amount.  Use words like "generosity, kindness and thoughtfulness" in place of a dollar sign.  "Your generosity is appreciated" trumps" Thanks for the 20 bucks"
   
   
3. Explain Why or How the Gift is Special
   Now you should tell the person how you'll put the gift to use.  "The roses smell lovely and the bright colors are really lifting my spirits during the cold winter season."  Stuck on the money issue again?  Try explaining why their generosity is appropriate at this time.  For example, "I'll be thinking of you when we put it toward our long-awaited vacation next month.
   You should have some fun here, and get personal and descriptive if you want, but keep it honest.  Telling your Aunt Bea that "I literally have not taken off this sweater and matching hat since the day they arrived two weeks ago" seems less than sincere.
   
   
4. Reflect on the Past and Look Ahead to the Future
   This is a nice touch because it makes the recipient feel that they are a part of your life.  As a guide, think about why or when the gift was given and think about when you'll see the gift giver next.  "It was wonderful to see you at our wedding.  I'm looking forward to seeing you at Thanksgiving."  Writing to someone you barely know or rarely see?  Try something like "It was so nice of you to think of me.  I hope all is well with you and that we cross paths soon."
   
   
5. Say it Again
   Drive the point home by saying "Thanks" one more time.
   
   
6. Sign-off
   Give your regards and sign your name.

1. Write it ASAP
   It's never too early to thank someone for his or her professional help, or for loyal and continued business.  If you are thanking someone for a job interview, you should mail the letter within 24 hours.
   
   
2. Address the recipient by name
   Whenever possible, address your letter to a specific person, and refer to him or her again by name and/or title within the body of the letter.  If you can, refer to specific experiences or instances the person will remember.  You don't want the letter to sound like a generic form you send to anybody and everybody.
   
   
3. Use quality stationery
   E-mail has become increasingly acceptable in our society, but if you want to stand out from the crown, a hand-written note is the way to go.  Customized stationery or letterhead lends itself to the professional and memorable image you want to portray.
   
   
4. Get to the point.
   Thank the person for their time, advice, or business.  Do not be overly dramatic or make grand gestures or promises you can't keep.  You want to be sincere and succinct.
   
   
5. Proofread!
   There are few things more unprofessional or annoying than common grammatical errors.  Typos send the message that you are careless and unprofessional.  If you need to, type a draft of your letter in a word processor to check for spelling and grammatical errors

Of course professional letters should be just that. . . professional. But, that doesn’t mean they can’t be personal. Try to insert some personality into you letter by making a connection with the recipient in some way. Have you met this person? You can open by saying "It was so nice to meet you at last week’s reception." Do you have something in common or a shared interest? Mention it! Especially if you have interviewed or conferenced with this person, it will serve you well to mention a specific aspect of your conversations. It will likely peak the interest, or at least stir a memory in the reader, which will hold their attention...your ultimate goal.

Extra Advice for Business Correspondence

Here are a few extra tips to help you communicate effectively:

Common Abbreviations and Their Meanings:

ASAP - As soon as possible
Enc - Enclosure (indicated that there is an attachment)
Cc - Carbon copy (indicates other recipients of the letter)
PS - Postscript (any "afterthoughts" added after the signature)
PTO - Please turn over
RSVP - Please reply (from the French "répondez, s’il vous plait")
RE - Regarding (lets the reader know why you are writing)

What if I Don’t Know to Whom I am Writing?

In all cases, it’s always best to address the letter to an actual person, so do your best to gather the name of the hiring manager or office manager or whomever you need to contact (check the company web site or call the office to gather this information). If it’s not possible to secure a name, try any of the following (less personal) salutations:

To Whom it May Concern:
Dear Sir or Madam:
Ladies and Gentlemen:

Miss, Ms or Mrs?

Miss - addressing an unmarried woman (rarely used today. Ms is "safer")
Ms - addressing a woman whose marital status you don’t know
Mrs - addressing a married woman

Finding out someone’s official title may actually take a little research on your part, but it will be well worth the effort. First, find out whether the person uses an official title (Dr. for example). Without this important sign of respect, you’ll run the risk of insulting your reader before she has even begun reading. After the greeting or salutation, place a colon before skipping a line and beginning your business letter.

2. Do Present Yourself Well With Professional Stationery

Business letters, cover letters, and professional letters of all types are often your first and only chance to make a great impression. In the same way that you would wear your nicest, most professional attire to an interview or important meeting, you should put your best foot forward with high-quality, professional business stationery that it is a reflection of you and your business.

3. Do make your intentions clear

Especially when dealing with busy professionals, it’s important to be specific and candid about what you want. It’s even more important that you get to the point within the first few sentences. Studies show that readers simply lose interest if the intent or meaning of a letter is not made explicitly clear within the first paragraph. Keep the concentration on what you are trying to say and/or what you want to happen after the recipient has read the letter. In most cases, you should leave the reader with a specific follow-up action (i.e. "I will call your office next week to follow up on this matter," or "I look forward to your response").

4. Do Proofread

The spell-check and grammar functions on our computers have helped us, but hinder us at the same time. There is no "auto-correct" on a hand-written letter, so you’ll have to become your own editor! One great idea is to type your letter using your word processor to check for any mistakes before putting your pen to paper. There are also multiple web sites that will allow you to check your spelling and grammar. But, the most important advice we can give is to read and re-read your letter, than read it again before sending it. Often, we can’t see our own mistakes, so it’s important to "walk away" for a while before coming back and editing your work, or you can give your letter to a friend or colleague to edit. It’s important to send your letter in a timely matter, but it’s more important that any errors, misspellings, or typos don’t reflect poorly on you or distract from your important message.

Just by reaching out to a friend in an "old-fashioned letter," you’re making a stylish statement. Why not start an entire string of hand-written communication? We bet you’ll love the feeling of finding a beautiful, meaningful hand-written note in your mailbox among all those bills and junk mail! The most obvious way to encourage ongoing correspondence is to explicitly ask the reader to write you back. You should also consider including your return address on your letter itself so the recipient can write a return note if they wish, even long after the envelope has been tossed in the trash.

5. Do Make A Memorable Exit

Don’t sign your letter and seal the envelope unless you’ve said adieu in an unforgettable way. Some trusty standbys are: "Love," "Best wishes," "Sincerely," "Very Sincerely," "Cordially," and "Gratefully" But, you are free to get as creative as you want. Here are a few examples of inspired ways to sign-off: "all the best," "ciao," "see you soon," "love always," "fondly," and "cheers!"

Extra Advice for Social Correspondence

Here are a few extra tips to help you communicate effectively:

Everyday Is A Reason To Write

Most people receive letters on birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, and other happy occasions. But, what about all those other everyday events and accomplishments that are worth sharing and celebrating? When we hear "Holidays Cards," why not think of New Years, Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Valentine’s Day, and the Fourth of July as well as Christmas and Hanukkah? Any time you think of a loved one or friend is reason enough to write and let them know they are loved.

Save the Date

Hand-written letters often become saved mementos of friendships, experiences, or happy memories. Imagine that your recipient may want to save this "piece of you" and pull it out someday for comfort, happiness, or just for sentimentality. By dating your letter in the upper right corner, you can put a timestamp on this timeless memento.

Have Fun!

The main reasons many people shy away from letter writing is because it takes some time, it takes some effort, and it seems somewhat "serious." We encourage you to break away from these bonds and just have fun with your letter writing. A great first step is to find some fun, unique, carefree stationery.

Think about your stationery as the blank "canvas" on which you get to create something timeless and completely original. Along the same lines of putting your best foot forward and making great first impressions, stylish, high-quality paper makes a statement before your recipient even begins reading. The style of stationery matters, too. Rarely would you want to write a condolence letter on business stationery, or a love note on a "Thank You" card. Consider the color, weight, quality, and size of the paper as those qualities can convey a surprising amount of emotion and meaning. Browse our complete collection of personal stationery here: http://www.americanstationerv.com.

2. Do Address Your "Audience"

It’s important to address your recipient by his or her name (or nickname) to establish a sense of personal connection. Of course, the title and greeting you choose to use will depend on your relationship with the recipient, as well as the tone and level of formality you want to establish in the letter. The most common greeting is "Dear," but a less formal "Hi,""Hello,""My Friend," or even "Hey" is a perfectly acceptable opening line for a friendly letter. For our guide to more professional or formal letters, see the Top Ten Dos and Don’ts of Business Letter Writing.

3. Do Get To The Point

A concise, thoughtful letter actually takes longer to compose because the writer has to put some thought into what you really want to say. There is no "backspace" button on your pen, and there is a limited amount of physical space on which you get to write. Written letters are not as conversational as phone calls, not as succinct as texts and not as unrestrained as emails. We recommend jotting down the main ideas, news, and thoughts you want to share with your reader before actually putting pen to paper. From your list of notes, you’ll be able to craft a friendly letter that successfully says what you want it to say.

Mark Twain effectively and famously summed up the importance of devoting care, thought, and time in order to communicate succinctly and efficiently. In this era of informal emails and casual text messages, many of us have lost that natural "knack" for communicating in a genuine, heartfelt, and meaningful way. Letter writing is becoming more than just a "disappearing art form," as it’s recently been labeled, It’s also an important tradition and a practice worth preserving.. .for good reason! Letter writing can be a great way to communicate, to reconnect, and to build relationships. And, as Mark Twain reminds us, it shouldn’t always be about communicating quickly or even extensively rambling about the little details, but about communicating meaningfully. Whether you are a consistent letter-writer, or just learning the tricks of the trade, here are our top tips to help you craft beautiful correspondence and say what you want to say; be it in a friendly casual note or a flawless professional letter.  Over the next several days we will be posting articles with tips for writing both social and business letters.

The American Stationery Company offers a wide line of wedding anniversary party invitations to choose from and each is customizable so it will show your own personal touch. From exquisite and formal to contemporary and casual, they have an invitation to suit any party theme.

For a party with all the frills, consider our Antique Frame anniversary invitation. Set on a backdrop that resembles golden parchment, the words "Happy Anniversary" are printed in a beautiful script font. A light banner dashes across the center of the invitation framed by a Greek key border. The year of the anniversary is displayed on the upper right hand corner and can be customized, followed by your invitation wording. This invitation has vintage flare and sophistication. It is the right choice for any formal anniversary party. Your guests will know that you are pulling out all the stops in celebrating this occasion! For something a little more modern, consider our You’re Invited invitations or Chandelier invitations. Both have a striking baroque background to accent your personalized invitation wording. The "You’re Invited" invitation has a whimsical place card holder, to let your guest know that you have a special seat reserved for them at your celebration. Your custom wording can go in the place card as well as below in your invitation details. Like wise, the "Chandelier" invitation is a delightful choice for your wedding anniversary invitation. Set in an oval frame, an elegant chandelier sets the tone for your classy party. This invitation has a rich look and fancy feel to it.

Each and every wedding anniversary deserves to be celebrated in a memorable way. When you celebrate a wedding anniversary each year it is an annual renewal of the love and commitment to one another. It is an opportunity to reflect on how much closer the two have become and how much deeper your relationship has grown.

Celebrating the anniversary dates back to the 1200s, but the tradition was polished and refined in the Victorian era. Today, with more than half of marriages ending in divorce, it is even more important to celebrate the wedding anniversary. A wedding anniversary commemorates a milestone in a lifelong commitment. Etiquette states that there are specific gifts to be given in correlation with the year of the anniversary. Below is a list of the traditional and modem gifts: 

Anniversary	Traditional Gift	Modern Gift
First	Paper	Clocks
Second	Cotton	China
Third	Leather	Crystal, Glass
Fourth	Linen	Appliances
Fifth	Wood	Silverware
Sixth	Iron	Wood
Seventh	Wool	Desk Sets
Eighth	Bronze	Linens
Ninth	Pottery	Leather
Tenth	Tin	Diamond
Fifteenth	Crystal	Watches
Twentieth	China	Platinum
Twenty-fifth	Silver	Sterling Silver
Thirtieth	Pearl	Diamond
Thirty-fifth	Coral	Jade
Fortieth	Ruby	Ruby
Fiftieth	Gold	Gold
Sixtieth	Diamond	Diamond

Wedding anniversary parties are a way to commemorate the occasion and celebrate with the family and friends that have been there for your journey as a couple. Whether casual and fun or sophisticated and elegant, from first anniversaries to fiftieth, a party is a fine way to mark the special day. The significance of the anniversary party is understood by all the guests, and that is why the invitations should be as distinctive as possible. Wedding anniversary invitations do so much more than give your guests the date, location, and time for your party. They convey the theme of the party as well as provide a great memento for the couple or others that wish to preserve record of the festivities. Set the perfect tone for your wedding anniversary party by selecting the perfect invitation to send to your guests!

Looking for the perfect accessory to top of your place setting? Our Textured Guest Towels and Napkins are ideal when hosting a dinner party or brunch. These luxurious and absorbent guest towels and napkins are a great addition to any table or bathroom. The napkins and towels can be personalized in many ink colors and a block, script monogram or a single initial and name.

Our Design Your Own Cocktail Napkins are another great option for napkins that can be used for any occasion. The napkins measure 4 ¼" x 4 ¼" and can be printed in several different colors. Best of all you can choose a design icon that is best for you and with over 50 icons to choose from you are sure to find the perfect one. If you prefer a monogram to an icon you are free to choose that as well.

As mentioned before American Stationery offers sever napkins for holiday use. For Halloween there are napkins featuring ghosts, pumpkins and even black cats. We have napkins to put the finishing touches on your Thanksgiving feast that feature acorns or cornucopias. If you have that Christmas spirit and want to show it we have Christmas napkins as well featuring snow flakes or Santa’s red sleigh. Our Holiday Napkins offer almost 20 different holiday icons to choose from. There are even Valentine’s Day Napkins for those romantic dinners at home.

The team at American Stationery is confident that we’ll have just what you are looking for. However, if we don’t happen to have just the thing you need please check back often. The designers here at American Stationery are always designing new product for our collection.

• Safari Memo Stack
  A "wild" collection of classy yet daring paper, all tied together with a bow and a coordinating pen.
   
• Chocolate Toile Gift Tower
  Classic stationery styles in a trendy palette of blue and brown, all tied together with a coordinating pen and tied up in a ribbon.

If you have a child or grandchild on your list they will be a perfect candidate for the Kids’ Critter Notes and Seals. These adorable fold notes come in your choice of "critter" and name in brightly colored ink. They can be accompanied by matching colorful seals, that any child is sure to adore. Another fun suggestion is Primary or Pastel Wooden Puzzle Stools or Wooden Name Puzzles. These are not only attractive, but sturdy and fun for kids of all ages.

So in summary, American Stationery offers a lot of thoughtful personalized gifts that will be useful long after the candy has all been eaten and the flowers have started to wilt. Why not start your own tradition and give your loved ones a personalized Valentine’s gift that shows you took the time to get them something unique and special. We're confident that you can find the perfect gift for every one lucky enough to make your Valentine’s Day list.

If you are looking for a standout gift for your wife or girlfriend try a box of personalized correspondence cards or note cards with matching accessory items. One best seller is the Park Avenue Cards which are available in your choice of Pink/Brown, Mint/Brown or Mocha/Brown pastel borders. These are complemented with matching double lined envelopes. This set is sure to be unique and add a "wow" quality to your gift giving. If cards aren’t your style, you should consider the Pretty Vines Note and Label Set. These delicate fold notes are available in your choice of Mint Green, Pale Blue or Soft Pink. They are accompanied with matching envelope labels, and are sure to be a pleasant surprise to any gift recipient. If you would like an alternative to cards or notes, any of our Fashion Memo choices would be great. These stylish memos come in an acrylic holder and are neatly tied with a grosgrain bow. These are only a few of the many personalized options available online at American Stationery, so you can be sure to find the right color, personalization and size to suite your special someone.

If you are searching for something special for your husband, boyfriend or a special man in your life try one of the following items. The handsomely embossed border Polished Correspondence Cards are perfect for a quick note, and can be paired with a number of attractive lined envelopes. Another correspondence card suggestion would be the All-In-One cards. These sport a name and address, all on one tastefully printed card. Another classic recommendation would be the Slender Hand Bordered Single Panel Cards. These are offered in your choice of Navy, Hunter or Wine hand border with optional coordinating lined envelope. Whatever you choose the recipient is sure to appreciate your considerate gift.

The following is a list of colors and the feelings associated with them:　

• Blue: Tranquility, Tenderness, Sensitivity, Love and Affection
• Green: Persistence, Self-Esteem, Possessiveness and Obstinacy
• Red: Desire, Domination, Sexuality and Aggression
• Yellow: Spontaneity, Originality, Expectancy and Exhilaration
• Violet: Thoughts and Desires
• Brown: Bodily senses, mental comfort.
• Black: Expression of Nothingness
• Grey: Refusal to be involved

So think about your what your favorite colors say about you, and start to use them to express more of yourself and your personality in your clothing, home décor, auto, and when selecting your next correspondence card, wedding invitation, birth announcement, thank you note. Go ahead and express a little more of the "real you" to those you interact with. Have fun and color your life!

There are a multitude of different colors on this Earth, and in addition each and every one of these hues have some sort of an effect on those encountering them. They can influence one’s point of view and even the way one conceptualizes things within their lives. Although the majority of us may react to a color influence in what is considered a norm, there will be other individuals whose reaction may be significantly different. All artists, advertisers, leaders, and even state departments know the importance of using colors to express meanings from one person to another.　

Colors and color theories began with the color wheel itself. This includes the psychology of how the brain essentially processes different colors, as well as how different colors affect behavior and moods. It appears that colors begin to have an effect on personal qualities via the way they are processed by the human eyes. Each human being registers colors at slightly different impulses and as a result, each color will affect the body with different emotional responses. Some experts believe that color and light come into the body through the skin, after registering through our eyes; it is combined through our body, from not only site but our energy.　

Each holiday season we all receive those neat holiday cards that feature the most recent family photo of our friends and family. Most of these cards are termed "Photo Mount" cards (see Choosing the Right Holiday Card). They are called this because the photo is mounted to the card with a glue adhesive on the back. What makes digital photo cards unique is that the photo provided by you is printed directly onto the card stock. That's right, no assembly required. You simply write your holiday wishes on the inside, slide the card into the envelope and mail. Do not forget to add personalized address labels to make the process even easier!

Holiday photo cards such as Happy Holidays Photo Cards, Silent Night Photo Cards and our Holiday Gifts Photo Cards  are perfect for displaying your recent family photo or to show your friends and family how much your children have grown over the last year.

With the addition of our new photo upload and preview system you can change just about any feature on our photo cards. Designs like our Snow Birds Holiday Cards and Holiday Stripes Photo Cards are not limited to just being used for the holidays. You can change Happy Holidays to We Are Engaged or Johnny’s First Christmas, just about anything you can think of is possible.

Photo thank you cards are perfect for any occasion. You can upload a photo from your wedding and write your thank you message on the inside. You may decide to upload a photo of your child and thank your guests for attending the recent birthday party. You can even upload a photo of a recent addition to your family thanking everyone for the great gifts at a baby shower.

The addition of digital printing to printers has opened many doors to designers. Anything is possible for designers and the result of their labor is great products for you and your loved ones to enjoy together.

• Yom Kippur - October 8, 2011
• Columbus Day - Second Monday in October: October 10, 2011
• Navy Day - Always October 13
• Bosses’ Day - Always October 16
• Sweetest Day - Third Saturday in October: October 15, 2011
• Mother-In-Law’s Day - Fourth Sunday in October: October 23, 2011
• Halloween - Always Oct. 31

November

• Daylight Saving Time Ends - First Sunday in November.
• Election Day - Tuesday on or after Nov. 2
• Marine Corps Day - Always November 10
• Veteran’s Day - Always November 11
• Thanksgiving Day - 4th Thursday in November: November 24, 2011

December

• Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day - Always December 7
• Chanukah - December 21, 2011
• Winter Solstice - December 21, 2009
• Christmas Eve - Always December 24
• Christmas Day - Always December 25
  (Photo Holiday cards are a great way to send holiday greetings to loved ones)
• Kwanzaa - Always December 26 - January 1
• New Year’s Eve - Always December 31

Do not forget to schedule these other important events in 2009:

• Birthdays (Elegant, personalized stationery also makes a gorgeous gift!)
• Anniversaries (25th and 50th)
• Graduations (Set them up for success with the gift of beautiful, professional business stationery)

Stationery also helps you prepare for the unexpected:

• Engagement cards
• Sympathy cards
• Thank you cards
• Congratulations
• Invitations
• Get Well Soon cards
• Bon Voyage (luggage tags)

• Independence Day - Always 4th of July
• Parents Day - 4th Sunday in July

August

• Air Force Day - Always August 1
• Coast Guard Day - Always August 4
• Friendship Day - 1st Sunday in August

September

• Labor Day - First Monday in September: September 5, 2011
• Grandparents Day - Sunday after Labor Day: September 11, 2011
• Constitution Day/Citizenship Day - Always September 17th
• Fall Equinox - September 23, 2011
• Rosh Hashanah - September 29, 2011  

• April Fool’s Day - Always April 1
  (Make them smile! Send a great joke or your most hilarious memory.) - The Sunday before Easter: April 17, 2011
• Tax Day - Always April 15
• Palm Sunday - The Friday before Easter: April 22, 2011
• Passover - April 19, 2011
• Good Friday
• Earth Day - April 22, 2011
  ("Go green" with a nature-inspired and eco-friendly greeting.)
• Easter Sunday - April 24, 2011
  (Write a note or blessing to friends or family on Easter-perfect stationery)  
• Administrative Professionals’ Day - Wednesday of the last week of April
  (Don’t forget to say "thank you!" to all those people who make your life easier.)

May

• Holocaust Remembrance Day - May 1, 2011 
• National Day of Prayer - 1st Thursday in May
• Cinco De Mayo - Always May 5
• Mother’s Day - 2nd Sunday in May: May 8, 2011 
  (Do not just send her a note; honor her with the beautiful gift of personalized stationery made just for moms)
• Nurse’s Day - May 12, 2011
• Armed Forces Day - 3rd Saturday in May: May 21, 2011
• Memorial Day - Last Monday in May: May 30, 2011

June

• Flag Day/Army Day - Always June 14
• Father’s Day - 3rd Sunday in June: June 19, 2011
• Juneteenth (Liberation of Slaves) - Always June 19
• Summer Solstice - June 21, 2011 

• Happy New Year! - Always January 1st
  (Send your friends simple wishes for a happy New Year or pen a personal champagne toast to all of your loved ones)
• Martin Luther King, Jr. Day - Third Monday in January: January 19, 2009
  (Take the time to write to people whom you admire or aspire to be like)

February

• Groundhog Day - February 2, 2011
• Chinese New Year - February 3, 2011
• Lincoln's Birthday - February 12
• Valentine’s Day - Always February 14
  (Let them know you love them with all your heart. Write a love note on romantic, Valentine’s Day stationery)
• President’s Day - Third Monday in February: February 21, 2011 
• Washington’s Birthday - February 22  

March

• Mardi Gras - March 8, 2011(If you cannot invite them to the party, send happy, festive thoughts!)
• Ash Wednesday - March 9, 2011
• St. Patrick’s Day - Always March 17
  (Why not send a limerick or Irish blessing of your own on a pretty piece of St. Patrick’s Day Stationery?)
• Daylight Saving Time - The second Sunday in March: March 13, 2011
  (This year, let your loved ones know you miss them every little minute.) 
• First day of Spring - March 20, 2011
  (Use floral-inspired stationery to say "hello" once spring has sprung!)

Recent polls conducted by General Nutrition Centers and Quicken show that more than 50% of Americans aspire to appreciate and spend more time with family and friends in the coming year. When it comes to reaching out, showing appreciation and reconnecting, personalized stationery is a great first step towards making more frequent and more meaningful connections with your loved ones. Here’s how: when you are prepared with beautiful stationery, you will be excited about (and therefore more likely to) reach out to the important people in your lives on both the biggest and the smallest of occasions.

A 2011 calendar and a current contact list are all you need to get started. Whether you choose to plug important dates into your PDA, or prefer an old- fashioned wall-calendar, use the following list (posted throughout the next couple of weeks) to mark all the year’s important dates and events. The next step is to get into the habit of looking a few days or a week ahead in order to send timely and relevant notes to loved ones on important holidays and celebrations. One idea is to make the first Sunday of every month "letter night" where you (alone or with your family) sit down to write notes to loved ones — whether there is a holiday coming up or not!

You just might find that stationery also helps you hold some of your other New Year’s Resolutions. Beyond reconnecting with loved ones through the mail, you will also be creating quality family time, getting organized and saving money.

Some of these dates will be obvious, time-honored traditions. Others will be totally new to you. Keep an open mind and see our suggestions over the next several days for turning even the most obscure of holidays into excuses for making meaningful connections with your loved ones. . .starting today!

Normally, retirement parties do not happen more than once, it is not a birthday bash you can celebrate every year, or a holiday, it is a very special accomplishment and the retiree deserves an astounding celebration that they won't fail to remember. If you decide to go with party favors, or decorations why not create some with pictures of the retiree, from when they started working, till the end date. This is sure to evoke memories and prompt discussions between all about the changes throughout the years. A collage or a slide show would also be fun! You can also decorate around your theme, for example with a luau theme you could have an arrangement of different colored leis. Another suggestion would be to utilize craft paper for help achieving a Hawaiian look. The paper can be used to create a bright sun, green palm trees, blue Ocean, colored fish, etc.  If you want to have an inexpensive centerpiece, and do not want to go over the top, drop out different tips of candies, confetti, and set up colored balloons. Top it off with an over sized Banner that acknowledges the retirees name, with Congratulations. You can also personalize labels for your food and drinks, or personalize clear plastic cups with the retiree's name, and retirement date, birthday, whatever you feel is more right. If they have a certain hobby, such as golf, crafts, knitting, etc., add pieces of their hobby into the theme of the party, or use as center pieces!

When ending the party, be sure to have a basket of goodies, or a party favor for the guests. These can be given to them as they leave, and you can also ask them to leave a message for the retiree, in a book you will supply. Ask them to also include their address, phone number and email address.  In short, just do your best to make sure that the party is fun for all. There may be a few tears shed, speeches given or jokes thrown around...whatever happens it is sure to be a memorable and rewarding time for the retiree!

For most of those facing retirement it is a cause for celebration, but it can also be a little down hearted because the retiree is preparing to depart their work place, work friends and normal routine. That is why throwing a retirement party is a great way to say goodbye, and wish the lucky retiree good luck as they enter in to a new chapter and adventure in their life.

In years past retirement was associated with days full of TV, books, propping up of feet and relaxation. Today those images seem to be in the minority...today retirees are busy moving away to a warm place, starting a new exercise program, volunteering their time or starting a new career. They may have children and grandchildren close by, but the financial responsibilities are gone, and this is more their time to enjoy their lives than ever! So why not plan them a retirement party they can start their new life with!?

Whether you are planning this celebration for a close relative, such as a parent, sister, brother, or any family member in general, or for a co-worker, or just a good friend, make their retirement celebration party a special time for them and everyone else! You can hold your party at your home, the retiree's home, a family member’s home, a favorite restaurant or even a city park. Anything goes, as long as you ensure that your retirees preferences in mind. When you have decided on a date, and a location you should start selecting your invitations. American Stationery has a nice selection of retirement party invitations that should allow you to find something that suites your party and guest of honor. When you complete your invitation copy, be sure to let the guest know if a gift is appropriate. If so, they can bring a gift, and gift cards, and money all for the retiree with time on their hands!

You will probably need to have a few conversations before the actual party day, so that you and everyone involved has a clear picture of how things will flow and what is expected of them. If you have a chance you should try to get the recipe that everyone is serving, along with a little bio or family photo. You should also take photos at each home of the host and hostess, guests and the food being served. This can all be compiled in to a wonderful memento of a wonderful evening together. You may just have started a tradition that you continue though the coming years. Whatever the outcome you should relax and enjoy your evening. It should be a unique experience that will make your holidays an enjoyable time, and allow you can mold your party to fit you and your friends lifestyles. Enjoy, and have fun with your Progressive Dinner Party!

Half of the work involved in a Progressive Dinner Party is done once you have decorated your home for the holidays. This party simply consists of a dinner that changes homes for each food course. For example you may start out with appetizers at your home, and move on to the next home, admire their decorations, and have a soup course…this continues from home to home until your finish off with dessert or a night cap. Planning and executing a Progressive Dinner Party achieves two goals, one being that everyone can share their beautifully decorated homes, and secondly everyone can enjoy a wonderful dinner with one another.

The first step is to decide how many friends you would like to include in your party so that you can determine how many homes and courses will be involved. We suggest beginning with appetizers followed by a soup course, then a main course followed by a salad course, followed by a dessert course and finished with a night cap. That would involve five homes, assuming that the appetizer and night cap would bring the partiers full circle. Once you have decided on your course plan and those you would like to have participate, you can begin looking for your invitation. Your invitation needs to include the date, time, location of each course, and an explanation of what will be involved. This should be a fun time, so each participant needs to prepare something that can be served in a timely fashion, and that won’t interfere with their travel from home to home for the other courses. If you have a group who would like to include alcohol with their courses, you should probably try to line up a chauffeur to transport everyone from home to home. This takes the worry out of you and your guests’ festivities. If you plan on this, be sure you specify that in the invitation as well. When you begin looking for your invitation, American Stationery has a lot of colors, styles and themes of party invitations to choose from. You can also find personalized napkins, tumblers, napkin rings and even plates to accessorize your party with. A wonderful party gift could be a set of personalized party napkins for each of your friends…what a thoughtful gesture, and it is something they could use throughout the rest of the holiday season.

During the last forty five minutes or so, you should start the actual cookie exchange. Provide everyone with boxes, baskets or something to fill with cookies…have wax paper and plenty of plastic wrap on hand…Then instruct them to move from station to station replacing their original cookies with those baked by their friends. When finished they will have eight dozen cookies of all varieties ready to share over the holidays!

To add the perfect personalized touch to your Cookie Exchange Party you can assemble all of the recipes by participant into a cookie book that can be handed out to everyone as a parting gift. If your time allows a photo of each baker, and a story of why their recipe is a favorite or a family tradition would be a nice addition to each page. These books can become a tradition that is added to, or recreated each year as hostesses and participants change or are added. 

So this year don’t stress out over your lack of baking time. Have some fun and invite your friends to share their favorite cookie recipes at your Cookie Exchange Party! It can be a perfect kick off to a joyous new year.

A Cookie Exchange Party is normally held close to the holidays so that you will be able to enjoy your take home stash with family and loved ones. Once you have decided on a day that will best fit your schedule, and who you would like to attend, you can begin shopping for your party invitations. American Stationery has a large number of invitations that can be personalized in a variety of styles and ink colors. They even have photo invitations…an inviting platter of cookies could be your intro. Whatever you choose be sure you include the date, time and what each guest should provide. Typically each guest is asked to bring a dozen cookies for all attendees. So, if you have eight cookie bakers attending your party (including yourself) they will need to bake, and bring, 8 dozen of the same cookie to the party. Your invitation should also ask that the cookie name, and recipe, be supplied when replying to your R.S.V.P. This will ensure that you don’t have anyone duplicating cookies (and will allow you time to type up each recipe to be handed out at the end of your party).

Decorating for a Cookie Exchange Party can be as simple or elaborate as you like. If you go all out for the holidays, there probably won’t be much to add to your party decorations. If your party is in the evening, be sure your outside lights are plentiful, and that you have plenty of easy access parking. Inside should give off a warm and cozy atmosphere. A candle or two, and twinkling tree lights should lend a good start to the festivities. I would also recommend coordinating and personalizing your party napkins and tumblers. It would be really cute to have something like “Sara’s Cookie Exchange 2011”, or “The Cookie Brigade 2011” or anything creative that suits you! You could also use one of the many icons offered by American Stationery such as a snowflake, a holly sprig, or a dancing Santa Claus. When your guests arrive be sure you have set aside enough space to accommodate all of their cookies. A large table, or a long kitchen counter will probably fit the bill, and won’t need much decorating…a colorful tablecloth and a centerpiece should be enough.

Traditional cards can be very simple or very elegant and elaborate. They generally have a holiday design on the front and room for a personal message on the inside. Once you decide a traditional card is for you, you then have to decide which design fits your family best. The card designs include garland, holly, stars, snow, etc. The motifs include Santa, Frosty, Rudolph and other holiday characters.  (See Traditional Holiday Cards)

Photo mount cards offer a way for you to choose a simple or elegant card while also showcasing your family in your most recent family photo. Photo mount cards usually have a border which may or may not have a design. The border surrounds your photo which is secured to the card by glue surface applied by you after you personalize your card with a hand written message on the inside. (See Photo Mount Cards)

Photo cards are the latest addition to the holiday card family. With the rise in digital printing, the demand for these holiday cards has also risen. Digital printing allows the printer to print your high resolution image right on the card design. There are many designs available from which to choose. (See Photo Cards).  These designs incorporate your photo in many different ways. Some offer just your photo on the front of the card in a horizontal or vertical position while others fit your photo into the design of the card. One way would be to incorporate your photo into the shape of a Christmas tree ornament or perhaps into the shape of a gift under the Christmas tree.

As you can see that while there are generally three types of holiday cards available there are several designs to choose from. With a diverse group of designs you are certain to find the perfect card for your family.

So, be sure to keep your thank you notes, pens and stamps on hand. You should keep a close inventory, and consider giving them as gifts to others. They will be well received, because even in this busy time of email and text messaging a personal hand written note means more than ever! Be considerate and thoughtful; write your thank you notes!

If you are stressed out and uncertain of what all materials you may need to start out the thank you cards, first go to American Stationery and check out their wide variety of available notes and cards. You can select from several sizes, colors and styles. At American Stationery you will also find a wide array of fonts and monograms to personalize your thank you cards or notes with. You can personalize based on your favorite look; a first name, a first and last name, a monogram, or three initials. If you opt to personalize with a monogram be sure you use the first letter of your first name, the first letter of your last name, and the first letter of your middle name. For example Elizabeth Ann Walker would be a monogram of EWA. If you decide your personalization should be your three initials, then use the first letter of your first name, middle name and last name in order. For example; Elizabeth Ann Waler would be personalized with the initials EAW. Whatever your preference it is always nice to have a set of personalized thank you notes or cards on hand so you can write and send them quickly. If you have your notes or cards, then be sure you have a pen that writes nicely in an ink color that enhances your stationery. Lastly, keep a few stamps on hand, and you've got all the elements you need to create a successful thank you.

Deciding what beverages to offer at your party can be just as important as deciding on your food offerings. You can safely stick with a variety of beer, wine, water and soft drinks. Or stock an open bar…either appoint a couple of friends to bartend throughout the evening or invite everyone to serve themselves. If your budget isn’t large enough, it is perfectly acceptable to ask everyone to “bring their own”. The choice will be easy, once you have decided what friends will be attending.

Since this is your party, and your night, be sure to make time for yourself to enjoy the party and your friends. One suggestion would be to pass around trays of appetizers, giving you a chance to greet and mingle with everyone. Another is to take turns bartending, answering the door or involving others in games or music. Be creative, you’ll find a way to enjoy everyone and yourself! You should definitely be the crowd cheerleader when the countdown to midnight begins…hugging, cheering and kissing should definitely be part of this occasion!

When the party is winding down it is best to make sure all of your party goers are safe to drive. If you have any doubt, you should arrange for a driver or a cab to see them safely home. We would also encourage you to have your couch and guest room made up for those that may have enjoyed your party too much…

We hope this helps open up your planning process for your next New Year’s Eve party. Whatever you decide on just be sure you plan on having fun, keeping an open mind, and adapt to the flow of the group. You’ll have a great evening and a great start to your New Year!

You will want to have out some holiday decorations, some nice touches can be icicle lights, candles and cozy seating arrangements. The lights and candles will soften the atmosphere, and intimate seating arrangements will encourage guests to relax and chit chat. You should also plan on adding some pizzazz to the evening with fun additions like horn blowers, party hats, or confetti. While this may seem a little juvenile, as the night winds to an end they will only add to the laughter and enjoyment.

No party is complete without the right music playing in the background. You should prepare a play list that can be changed frequently throughout the evening. We would include classic hits, seasonal favorites, dance tunes and anything else that will spice things up. Music is a sure hit at New Years, and it shouldn’t be hard to get everyone swaying or dancing to the beat as they mingle with each other.

If you need entertainment, other than music you should have tables and games set up well in advance. A few tables of cards, poker or gin rummy tournaments can be a lot of fun. You could also pull out the Monopoly board or Trivial Pursuit…the list is endless. Games are usually a crowd pleaser and one way of creating interaction amongst your guest. This is definitely something to consider as an early or late evening ice breaker.

New Years Eve is a celebration well recognized for producing high expectations, resolutions, kisses and thoughts of years gone by…it may seem like months away, but it will be arriving sooner than you may be hoping for, especially if you are going to be a party thrower extraordinaire. The majority of celebrants want their new years eve to be something to look forward to filled with anticipation of the new year to come, and memories of the years gone, in short something unforgettable would fit the bill nicely. So why not take a chance, and instead of falling asleep in front of the television minutes before the “ball” drops, throw your own New Years Eve Bash instead? If you decide to do so, we’ve included some tips to help ensure your success.

You need to remember that throwing a great party doesn’t have to be related to how much money your are willing to spend, it can be just as successful on a lower budget with a lot of thought, planning preparation and organization. Don’t skimp when it comes to creating good quality tasting dishes, better quality cocktails and researching unique ideas for decorating. Having several winning ideas and excellent family and friends attending will make the entertainment on their own, along with you being the perfect host or hostess in the comfort of your own home!

You shouldn’t have any problem finding the perfect New Year Party invitations. There are many styles and colors available, even photo if that fits in your plans. There are also many h